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Asked by hopeful329

Q: miscarrying #13

Hello ladies.....sad to say I am lossing another angel. If you have read my previous questions I was having hope. But its unfortunate my Dr. told me after my 2nd US that I would miscarry he wanted to schedule a D&C but I chose to do it natural hoping for some kind of miracle. But this past Tuesday I started spotting very dark almost black blood (sorry TMI), just today it is pink but in very small amounts but I have not passed any tissue yet....My question is, how long does this usually take natural? 2 of my pregnancies that were past 7 weeks I did D&C's but all the others were chemical. I've never went the natural way this far long. I am so upset I really thought this little bubba was gonna stick. We will be going to a Fertility clinic so they can do further testing. My doctor said the only thing i have wrong is my fibroids but i had a HSG done back in 08 and they told me my fibroids would not be causing the MC's but we've had fetal chromasomal testing done and there wa

This question was asked Dec. 9, 2012 9:31pm
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by hopeful329 - Dec. 11, 2012 6:08pm
Well, I received my Beta results, and I am in fact miscarrying. They are down to 11,498 from 20, 685. Thank you ladies for your concerns....... No sticky bubba this time. :(

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Answered by hopeful329 - Dec. 10, 2012 8:29pm
i would like to thank all of you girls. Its definitely emotionally draining waiting for the inevitable. I just came back from having a beta drawn to see how much they dropped. The worst is wondering when its going to happen and where I'll be at that time. Hopefully i will get the results tomorrow on the beta. Im sure i will post to keep all who are wondering the outcome.

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Answered by Hugh17 - Dec. 10, 2012 7:53pm
My 3rd miscarriage was at 6weeks 5 days and it was extremly painfull it started with light brown smears when I wiped the saterday it was light and mild cramps which would come and go by the next day it was still brown with clots and the cramps worsened I also opted for natural and I must say that its very brave thing to do but extremely painfull and emotionally very verydraining.... It took about 5 days for me to pass what what I called my bub which was a large plum sized clot, severe pain and bleeding continued for for another few days but gradually became lighter it took little over 3 weeks to finish(this is of course different in different women)... Looking back I should have done a d+c it helps you heal a little better I think.... Gud luck hun I wish u all the best inbox me if u have questions....

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Answered by ktjones1 - Dec. 10, 2012 4:26pm
I had a missed miscarriage in April of this year. I went in for my 12 week ultrasound to find that my baby's heart had stopped beating at around 10.5 weeks. I opted to have a d&c as I have heard it is very painful to miscarry naturally that far along. I personally had fewer pregnancy symptoms before the ultrasound. However, I attributed that to getting out of the first trimester.

If you do in fact miscarry, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how bad it hurts. I'll be thinking of you.

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Answered by thirdtimemamma - Dec. 10, 2012 2:32am
:( i miscarried in feb at 8 weeks and i had light bleeding, no pain and my breast hurt for like a week after the m/c I hope and pray you can do it natural without a d&c,, and I will keep you in my thoughts and pray you get a sticky baby soon!

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Answered by hopeful329 - Dec. 10, 2012 1:15am
Thank you....I hope so we have been waiting for 6 years... :0(

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Answered by a member - Dec. 10, 2012 12:42am
Im not sure if my friend had sore breasts during her miscarriage or not, she also had 4 previous miscarriages and went on to have 2 healthy boys, praying you get your sticky baby soon.

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Answered by hopeful329 - Dec. 10, 2012 12:27am
Well he said that there was no heartbeat/blood flow yet and he also stated that my gest. sac was caving. That is why I opted to do it natural to hold onto hope. But, now i am bleeding since this tuesday but have not passed any tissue. Also, having cramps like I'm getting AF. I still have some hope, my breasts are still sore and Im still having vivid dreams which is something i do not always do....Wondering if that still happens when one is miscarrying??? Hmm

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Answered by jacksonwest - Dec. 10, 2012 12:10am
What was on the u/s that made the dr say you would miscarry? To want to schedule a d&c means there must've been something visible, maybe you're just wrong on your dates? Stranger things have happened, I would try and stay positive!

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Answered by hopeful329 - Dec. 9, 2012 10:50pm
If I was going by my last period i am 10 weeks, but i believe i ovulated late and i am 8 weeks as of today. My last period was Sept. 30th. Thank you for your response.Do you know if her breasts were sore up until her M/C?

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