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Asked by baby082015

Q: Fourth miscarriage :-(

I just really feel like giving up on trying for more babies im still young but i just don't understand how i can get pregnant but i can't carry them. Went to my appointment and find an empty sack. Now im going to have to have another d&c. It hurts draining, physical and emotionally. If any other ladies going though this please share sorry about your loss as well.

This question was asked May. 29, 2014 10:14am
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by babygear5 - Sep. 4, 2017 2:26pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand your physical and mental state at this time. This is good opportunity for me to help you to overcome this difficult situation on behalf of my own experience to handle this critical problem in effective way. I also face poor equality problem. You need not to lose hope. There are many effective methods that can change poor to good quality eggs within two and three month with strictly follow on rule and regulation timely. The first and foremost thing I want to say to handle this critical problem with positive attitude. The positive attitude and positive affirmation are effective tools to cure incurable disease in medical history.


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Answered by Allikay23 - Jun. 25, 2014 11:50pm
How are you doing? I am exactly where you are at. We don't want to go thought this pain again but we want kids together badly :(. My first miscarriage was when I was 24 baby was 8w4d when it stopped developing (symptoms disappeared 8w4d also) - I found out at 13 weeks. Second miscarriage I was 25 baby was 9w5d when it stopped developing (symptoms disappeared 9w5d also)- also found out at 13 weeks. Third miscarriage I was 26 blighted ovum 5 weeks luckily I found out quickly. Fourth miscarriage I am 27 - this has been the hardest pregnancy because my numbers are continuing to double(giving me hope) then seeing a gestational sac (gave me more hope) but I expect to see another blighted ovum at tomorrows u/s - there was no decidual reaction which means it'll be a blighted ovum.

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Answered by sobechicky - May. 29, 2014 11:40pm
Feel free to message me. But here is my as quick as can be history. IUI in 2011, chem preg. IVF in 2012, twins, no heartbeat found at 6 weeks, checked and rechecked, called it at 8 weeks, D&C. IVF #2 in 2013, chem preg. IVF #3 in 2013, chem preg. Every test under the sun.... Hysterosalpingogram = normal. 22-vial coag blood test = normal. Sed rate, CR-protein, NK cells count = normal. Their conclusion, my immune system attacks newly implanted embryo and attacks it with a blood clot. IVF# 4 in 2014 with Prednisone to control immune system, discussed Enbrel but Dr decided against it, plus baby aspirin and Lovenox to thin blood and prevent clotting ability. Now we are 12 weeks pregnant (tomorrow) with our miracle baby. Never give up. Never stop looking for answers. Never stop trying new things. My doctor told me time and time again, "If I can GET you pregnant, I will find a way to KEEP you pregnant." Talk to your doctor, find a different doctor, do whatever you

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Answered by kaylia2oo5 - May. 29, 2014 5:24pm
So sorry for your losses. I had a miscarriage back in 2011 and wouldn't wish it on anyone!!
Have you discussed genetic testing with your Doctor? My older half brother and his wife had no problems getting pregnant, but she kept miscarrying. After the 3rd miscarriage they found out my brother has a chromosomal problem. They've since been able to give birth to my niece :)

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Answered by estone - May. 29, 2014 5:01pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. Have you had any testing done since you have had 4 miscarriages? I hope you find the strength to try again. I lost twins at 18 weeks and had a chemical before that. Hugs to you.

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Answered by Rainbowbaby92 - May. 29, 2014 10:34am
I agree with sianny. I am only 21 but had 3miscarriages.. My dr did some genetic tests on me and our donor, immune tests and clotting factors and with the results of them I got put on meds till 13 weeks with this baby and all is ok.. There is hope even when it feels like it will never happen.. I hope the d&c goes smoothly. Look after yourself and take some time to recover xx

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Answered by Sianny - May. 29, 2014 10:20am
I'm sorry to hear of your sad news. I have only had one missed miscarriage but still it pains me to think about. Once you have recovered I think, if you aren't already, you should seek medical help to see if there is something simple that can be done to help you carry to term. Most of all you need to look after yourself, grieve and never give up hope. All my love x

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