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This time around, I know for certain my boyfriend is going to be an AMAZING birth partner!!! I am so excited about this and really want it to just be the two of us in the delivery room.
I'm only 7 weeks, but my mom has already insisted on being in the room during the birth, and was shocked when I said that I really wanted a private birth this time, but didn't want to hurt her feelings...her reply was snarky and she seemed pretty upset..."If YOU ask me not to be in there, then I won't be."
She hasn't ever seemed supportive of my current relationship (unhappy about my divorce) and seemed to insinuate that HE didn't want her in the room, but it's not just him and I don't know if she would ever believe that.
Any advice? Please help!!!
This question was asked Jul. 23, 2014 1:22pm
Category: Labour & Delivery
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Q: How do I tell my mom I want a private birth?
My mom has been present in the delivery room during all 3 of my previous deliveries from my previous marriage...because my ex was not very supportive.This time around, I know for certain my boyfriend is going to be an AMAZING birth partner!!! I am so excited about this and really want it to just be the two of us in the delivery room.
I'm only 7 weeks, but my mom has already insisted on being in the room during the birth, and was shocked when I said that I really wanted a private birth this time, but didn't want to hurt her feelings...her reply was snarky and she seemed pretty upset..."If YOU ask me not to be in there, then I won't be."
She hasn't ever seemed supportive of my current relationship (unhappy about my divorce) and seemed to insinuate that HE didn't want her in the room, but it's not just him and I don't know if she would ever believe that.
Any advice? Please help!!!
This question was asked Jul. 23, 2014 1:22pm
Category: Labour & Delivery
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