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Asked by savyrose27

Q: Something Is Wrong. Worried

I've had this nagging feeling from the very beginning that something just isn't right. I have absolutely no symptoms. I've been pregnant 3 times(2 losses, 1 baby) and every time I had symptoms before my positive test. Mostly sore nipples and exhaustion. This time...nothing. I had 1 day of vomiting and other tummy issues but now I'm thinking it was just something I ate because the next morning I was fine. I just don't feel pregnant and it's really worrying me. I can't get it out of my head that something is wrong even though the lines on my tests are progressing wonderfully. I've heard with a MMC sometimes the tests don't change and you don't know baby has passed until you get an ultrasound. I'm going to call my doctor on Monday to make my first prenatal appointment. I'm 5 weeks tomorrow, hoping she'll see me around 6 weeks. I'm just...Worried. Not feeling good about this. I just want to know my baby is okay. Has anyone had this happen and turn out okay?

This question was asked Jul. 27, 2014 8:22am
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Answered by Sianny - Jul. 28, 2014 7:49am
I can understand your worry but I suffered a MMC last October and had every pregnancy symptom in the book right up until the ERPC. I had no idea anything was wrong for 4 whole weeks.
You're hormones don't drop when you mmc so you're body still acts pregnant.
The one thing I learnt from this is that symptoms mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.
Try to stay relaxed (easier said than done I know)

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Answered by savyrose27 - Jul. 28, 2014 2:57am
Thanks everyone. I know lots of women have very few symptoms and end up with perfectly healthy babies, but it's so not normal for me that it's freaking me out. Ugh. I just want the first trimester to be over so I can relax a little bit!

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Answered by estone - Jul. 27, 2014 4:05pm
You are still very early on! I hardly had any symptoms in any of my pregnancies. I have gone through losses as well, so I completely understand your concern. I didn't have morning sickness in any and it had me worried that I didn't have any symptoms. I'm sure everything will turn out great! Fingers crossed for you.

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Answered by KLS2010 - Jul. 27, 2014 3:19pm
I can understand where you're coming from. After a loss every little symptom or lack of makes you think things are wrong. I'm in the same boat as you right now.

My first pregnancy earlier this year .. I had plenty of symptoms before I even got a BFP. .. sore nipples, boobs were heavy, bloated/gassy, having to pee constantly, exhausted, hungry all the time. But that one didn't end well .. finally diagnosed with twin blighted ovums at 8wks after spotting for 3wks before that.

I just got a BFP last Tues .. but don't really have any symptoms this time. Just a little tired, sometimes more hungry, sometimes not, and nipples a little sore. Nothing like last time at all. And I've had a couple of days of spotting so of course I've been thinking that things are going wrong all over again.

I really hope this turns out well for you! Please keep us updated.

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Answered by eag923 - Jul. 27, 2014 12:45pm
With my first, I started having morning sickness before I missed my period, so when I found out #2 was on the way & I was still feeling OK, I was terrified. I was convinced that something was wrong. The nausea did start to kick in around 7 wks, but it was mild compared to #1. No breast tenderness, no vomiting, just tired & bloated. Ultrasound at 8 wks showed a perfectly healthy, squirmy baby! The morning sickness did kick in as the pregnancy progressed, but keep in mind, some women get lucky & have zero symptoms. My daughter is now 5 mos old & just perfect. Symptoms, or lack of, can't predict the viability of a pregnancy, so just enjoy the moment (even though I know it is hard to do). Gl!

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Answered by Rainbowbaby92 - Jul. 27, 2014 9:50am
After 3 losses I was convinced this time that something felt wrong.. I was constantly sure I was loosing bub and I didn't know it.. I'm now 27 weeks and I had a complete panic last week about lack of movement and I assumed the worst. Ultrasound showed it was all ok. Honestly it is just you being anxious after everything you've gone through. I know a few people who have miscarried multiple times and then had babies and they said they never stopped worrying and being convinced something was wrong until bub was in their arms. The earliest you would be able to have a scan is 7 weeks and some people don't see a heartbeat until 8 weeks if their dates are off. Good luck

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