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Asked by princess2095

Q: Still no sex because bf automatically thinks I'm "loose" since giving birth...help!

Currently 8 weeks postpartum making it 10 weeks since last time of dtd.

I'm getting emotionally hurt because he wants nothing to do with it and I can't go much longer without it . I had my suspicions that it was because of giving birth but confirmed it today when he admitted to it ....

I'm seriously hurt.


I don't know what to do ...advice please

This question was asked Jan. 17, 2015 2:39am
Category: Postpartum

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Answered by princess2095 - Jan. 19, 2015 5:02pm
Yeah mine was the exact same way . Just sucks :/

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Answered by angelbabyolivia - Jan. 19, 2015 5:43am
Get a vibrator. My boyfriend won't have sex with me and i have about 2 weeks left until i have my little boy. He says he's to creeped out. And usually your vagina goes back to the way it was before you were pregnant. Keagle exercises will help to tighten it up, nothing wrong with doing those. Um, maybe he's not sure what to expect or he's just worried he won't be able to please you. I'm not sure, but dont let him make you feel bad for having a baby. The guys have it easy i think, they dont have to go through even half of what us women do. Good luck.

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Answered by princess2095 - Jan. 18, 2015 5:21pm
Yeah the day that happens the world will end:/

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Answered by Mommatoboys - Jan. 18, 2015 1:54pm
I'm so sorry he's making you feel this way:(. Your body did an amazing thing creating, supporting, and delivering his child. Seriously, if doing all that was the man's job we would be extinct! Yes things are going to be a bit different down there but it should get back to the way it was before long, just keep doing kegal's they do help. I can't imagine how hurt you must feel, I know I would be crush and pissed. Keep your head up because you are beautiful and doing a wonderful job with your baby girl. I hope he realizes how foolish he is being and treats you the way you deserve.

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Answered by princess2095 - Jan. 18, 2015 1:04am
Lol nope I'm not doing anything for him and lol too funny:)

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Answered by Papas~Mama - Jan. 18, 2015 1:04am
O.M.G. what a jerkface! I only have one thing to say - I damn sure hope you're not puttin' his d*ck in your mouth or doing any damn favors for him;) Buy yourself a vibrator bigger than him and make sure he sees it, lol! That's just ignorant and proves how little he knows about vaginas. Sorry:(

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Answered by Papas~Mama - Jan. 18, 2015 1:03am
O.M.G. what a jerkface! I only have one thing to say - I damn sure hope you're not puttin' his d*ck in your mouth or doing any damn favors for him;) Buy yourself a vibrator bigger than him and make sure he sees it, lol! That's just ignorant and proves how little he knows about vaginas. Sorry:(

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Answered by princess2095 - Jan. 18, 2015 12:26am
Yeahhh that's my lovely life -_- I almost wish I didn't want to have sex but that isn't gonna happen

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Answered by Kitten90 - Jan. 18, 2015 12:24am
I can't believe he still hasn't come around yet =(

I'm in kind of the opposite scenario now.. I don't want to have sex anymore because now that I'm fully healed up I actually AM looser than before lol. =/ It's super awkward for me because the opening is tighter from all the tearing and stitching and whatnot. Been doing kegels religiously too lol.

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Answered by princess2095 - Jan. 17, 2015 4:12pm
Thanks ladies I guess time will tell :/

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