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Thanks everyone for the helpful advise and so sorry for your losses

Just because you lose one baby doesn't mean you'll lose another. You can totally go on to have a perfectly healthy pregnancy this go around.

I've had 3 CPs since my missed miscarriage in May of 2011. I should have been almost 9 weeks and found out during the ultrasound that my baby had died just a couple days before. I was completely devastated. When I got the positives for my chemical pregnancies I was very emotionless and detatached just because I knew they wouldn't work out. I tested got positives and started bleeding less than a day later. After those I had a baby in January of 2014 and am currently 21 weeks almost 22 and I keep expecting it to go bad but it hasn't. The realization that I'm pregnant still hasn't sunk in yet but I know she'll be here in April.

Every pregnancy is completely different. I lost 4 in a row in 12months after seeing heartbeats while trying for number 2 child. I had my baby in April and she's now 7 months old and my eldest is 8yrs. I found that I protected myself my staying very detached until I got past the first trimester and I didn't make any announcements until I finally hit 12 weeks. It is very hard not to be but case freaking out and testing every 5 seconds. Anything can happen at anytime but you have just as much success with this pregnancy as any other. Try and enjoy. I'm sure this'll be your rainbow xx

When I miscarried the doctor who preformed my D&C told me 1 in 6 pregnancies you will miscarry. As hard as it is to not think about it you need to put it in the back of your mind. This is a new pregnancy and you have to stay calm and stay positive. Find things to keep your mind occupied, that helped me. With the holidays being here that shouldn't be so hard. Happy Healthy 9 months and Happy Thanksgiving to your family!!