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Asked by xmaspig

Q: How do you stop yourself from constantly worrying? :(

I had a mc last September and I'm finally pregnant again with my rainbow. I'm only 4 weeks and I'm just terrified that it will end again. I won't have a scan for another 8 weeks at least and it just feels like a horribly long time to be worried.
Does anyone have any advice on how to just chill the heck out? I feel like I'm constantly knicker watching and I just don't feel able to be happy and enjoy things, and I'd really like to as hopefully of all goes well this will be my last pregnancy.
Sorry if this is in the wrong place, I wasn't sure where best to put it and thank you to anyone who can help.

This question was asked Mar. 7, 2016 2:10pm
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by babygear5 - Sep. 4, 2017 1:53pm
Hi welcome dear. I can understand your physical and mental status at this time. I can understand your problem in easy and effective way because I also face the same problem in my life. I am feeling happy to help you to solve your problem on behalf of my own experience in life. You should understand the stress and depression are root cause of all problems. You should reduce depression and stress to get maximum positive benefits to handle this critical problem in professional way. We also spend lots of my marriage life days with depression and stress. I want to win this situation at any cost. We try each and every effective method but not succeed. I accept full support from my husband side to handle this critical problem in effective way. I want to express heart fully thanks to God who supports me very well to handle this horrible problem and bring light into my life with baby gift.


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Answered by claudiamohr711 - May. 6, 2016 2:27pm
i feel you deeplu...i had a stillbirth 14 yrs back at 33 weeks and currently pregnant again at 8 weeks...however this pregnancy i dont really have much symptoms except for sore nipples on and on...its hard not to be paranoid when you have gone through losses before..I always tell God..all i want is just one healthy little baby..thats ALL i ask...i dont want riches just want good health and a healthy kid.Just relax and dont think too much...im sure everything will be fine with you

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Answered by kbaxter1 - Mar. 9, 2016 11:29pm
I've had two miscarriages before and now I'm 24 weeks expecting a baby boy. I'm passed the miscarriage scares but now I'm terrified of stillbirth or the babys heart stopping so I know exactly how you feel. I try to talk to my doctor about my concerns and he does his best to reassure me by letting me hear my babys heartbeat and little things like that. I know its easier said than done but try not to stress out too much, if youre stressed it will put stress on your baby as well. Just keep a good attitude and continue doing all the right things, I'm sure your baby will be born healthy and beautiful :)

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Answered by nicolalb - Mar. 9, 2016 5:50pm
I had a mc last September too and I am now 18 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby! Thing is you never stop worrying! I've been a nervous wreck the entire time and even still today bearing 20 weeks I'm constantly worrying about my progression! I booked myself a private reassurance scan when I was 10 weeks which helped me! As my dating scan wasn't till I was 14 weeks!
I wish you all the luck in your pregnancy and try to start positive! Xx

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Answered by xmaspig - Mar. 8, 2016 2:11am
Thankyou so much for taking the time to reply. I'm sorry for your losses and I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy. I'll try my hardest to stay positive and just enjoy the ride and concentrate on things I can control rather than the things I can't. Like redecorating my house! Lol. I'm hoping pinterest will keep me busy and help pass the time!

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Answered by zue_zue - Mar. 7, 2016 8:44pm
i experienced MC as well back in 2014.. 8 weeks pregnant on that time.. already bleeding weeks earlier.. 30 May 2014 the little angel went out still in her balloon.. felt so down on that moment.. a month later we where blessed with another pregnancy.. the pregnancy was quite a challenge since i was bleeding on and off.. anyway she was safely delivered into this world..

Please go through this pregnancy with happiness and joy.. We never know what comes ahead.. May be everything is just fine.. Its harmless to just enjoy and think positive.. The baby will love it when you are happy..

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Answered by Starmama14 - Mar. 7, 2016 6:46pm
That's a hard question! I had a mc back in November and am almost 10 weeks preggo with my rainbow so I can completely understand what you're going though. I was a total wreck before I had my first scan a week ago! I am still nervous that things are going to end suddenly again but I am trying not to worry myself too much. I am also just trying to keep myself busy and trying not to think too much about what could happen. At this point, I just have to have faith that everything will work out! Good luck to you!

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Answered by ShirlyWhirl - Mar. 7, 2016 5:13pm
I'm sorry for your loss. I understand and I am sure there are tons here that understand as well. I'm in the same boat. My mc was in September as well and I am trying my hardest to hold on the thought that everything is ok so far. I am now 8weeks 3day which is exactly when my pregnancy ended in September. I'm keeping myself occupied with hobbies that I love like writing, FB and watching Netflix when I'm resting. I know the wait for the first scan seems far away but stay positive. I had my second scan last week and I was so relieved to see my little gummy bear with a heartbeat. Coming here to see how everyone is progressing also helps as I am so happy for everyone. Good luck to you, hun! Hang in there!

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