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Asked by LinnyBuck

Q: I Lost All Three Triplets

I don't really have a question to ask. I guess I just needed to tell somebody (other than my husband) that I was pregnant with three at one point. So I've turned to the anonymous internet. I feel like I didn't just lose three babies, I've also lost my chance at mothering multiples (if that makes sense). Anyway, sorry to be so depressing right before Christmas. I just needed someone to know.

This question was asked Dec. 21, 2016 8:39pm
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by jennyjoe - Apr. 12, 2018 1:46pm
I'm really sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how it must be for you. I feel very badly for all those having trouble TTC. But having MCs is totally another thing. And you here lost triplets. I don't mean to make you feel worse about this. Sorry if I am! I wish these things didn't exist in our lives. I really want everyone to be able to experience the blessings that are children. Feeling pregnancy too! Not everyone is lucky enough. I wasn't. Glady, however, I did get my child. It was through surrogacy. I know it's not the natural method. But I'm glad I was able to get my little girl nonetheless! Wishing you the same happiness in the near future!

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Answered by rihana012 - Mar. 21, 2018 2:43pm
Hey. I am sorry for your loss. Dont be sad. This happens sometimes. I also lost my unborn twins. But the worst part is I cannot be a mother now. I have decided to go for surrogacy. I have found surrogacy is the most successful procedure. it is legal in Europe. I am happy that I can be a mother again. I hope this would work.

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Answered by deepikas - Aug. 28, 2017 4:37am
Hello,
i can understand your pain regarding this. I am to have faced the same situation and it had been a very hard time for me. I was very much depressed as no medicine was showing me positive results but rather i was just gaining weight. I later on then went to a clinic in kive. A very famous clinic for human reproduction and found very genuine solutions from the gynaecologist there. YOu too also can search for some famous and well-rated clinic and go for the IVF procedure.


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Answered by estone - Dec. 22, 2016 5:01pm
SO sorry you are going through this. I lost my identical twins at 18 weeks in 2011 and I still think about what would have been every day. Hugs to you and your husband during this awful time.

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Answered by adiggs - Dec. 22, 2016 1:16am
<3 A lot of us here have lost babies and are here for you if you need to talk. Praying for you.

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Answered by Mammoth - Dec. 21, 2016 10:19pm
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this. Multiples do carry higher risk and sometimes, there is nothing that can be done.

I haven't experienced any loss quite like that myself. (Though I have lost family members and I have found infertility very challenging.) I know this is a difficult time of year to be feeling your loss. It must be a terrible shock for you.

You need to grieve. I guess it will eventually feel a bit more manageable. Do seek the support of a counsellor if you are finding it hard to process this loss. They really can help.

Thinking of you. x

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Answered by nreiselpn - Dec. 21, 2016 9:00pm
This is what this site is for... my heart hurts for you. I can't even imagine. I haven't lost multiples but I have had 6 miscarriages ranging from ectopic to partial molar one was a second trimester loss. What I can share is that my husband and I chose not to tell family and friends about the 1st one and wish we would have because when we opened up the 2nd time to trust worthy ones (I didn't want to hear I'm sorry, or next time or maybe it's for the best) it was very helpful to get it off my chest.... the next thing I would say is in no way you caused this or had any control over this.... grief and cry... and by all means vent. It will get better .

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