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Category: Special - Miscarriage & Loss
Posted by gony02 » Oct. 18, 2017 10:40am

I've had 2 rounds of IVF without much success and 3 MCs so far. Though there are probably two more chemical pregnancies, all I got was a faint line on HPT and then the AF started within 2-3 days with a couple of huge clots. :( It's the problem with me - the uterine lining. Though it was around 10-12mm while the transfer but that's still is on the lower side. clinic, however, informed me that perhaps it could be not the comparatively thin lining but irregularities in its structure which has been disrupting the gestation. I did get pregnant (or had a BFP) 5 times and 2 of them were from normal TTC. If this round doesn't work for me either I too will have to opt for surrogacy

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Reply by Selest » Nov. 18, 2017 8:01pm

Hello. I’m really sorry that you are going through these difficulties. I’ve gone through several rounds of IVF but they all failed. That’s why I had to go for the surrogacy. I assure you there’s nothing to be afraid of. It is absolutely safe for your future baby. My daughter was born by the surrogate after 6 years of natural ttc. I dreamed to have a lot of kids but, unfortunately, I was unable to conceive. That’s why we had to ask for help. I’m very glad that our doctor offered us to try surrogacy. It was hard to see the surrogate being pregnant with our baby. But I had to do this. My husband was supporting me all the time. He has always wanted to be a father. I think you should stop wasting money for IVF. Surrogacy is a great option for you.

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Reply by RohmaQ » Nov. 20, 2017 8:30am

"HI Dear
You are having the same issue my sister had a few years ago. IVF wasn’t working out for her and she was getting hopeless. But then she gave surrogacy a go and she has 3 kids now. I am happy that you are considering this option if this round doesn’t work for you because wasting too much time on a thing which doesn’t seem to work for you is useless. Some people waste years of their lives on IVF and realize after that that it’s not working out for them. So I am glad that you are thinking of taking the decision at the right time"

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Reply by camille » Dec. 12, 2017 8:41pm

IVF failures have been faced time and time again. The same case to miscarriage. All you have to do is to be strong at such a time.

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Reply by camille » Apr. 23, 2018 2:35pm

There are many reasons that causes miscarriages. It could have been better if your doctor had elaborated this. So as to keep you aware of everything that is going in you. I hate it when you have a miscarriage and you are not told what is wrong. That is a bad part of being a doctor. There are many people who have gone through more than 2 MC. And they do not know what the reason is. This is so bad. At least you should also educate yourself. Maybe the doctor is a busy person. So sometimes you have to find the information for yourself. This is to help you. The doctor will not tell you everything. They are dealing with more than 100 patients perhaps. So he or she has to avail their services somewhere else. So when you get time find out more to what causes MC. Then you can find for solutions. But also going for surrogacy is a good idea. I conceived my first born through that process in Bio tex clinic.

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Reply by Olivia_1990 » Jul. 5, 2018 2:49am

Hey! I hope you are doing well now. I am really sorry to read your post. I know it is a bit old, but I could not stop myself from replying. I just want to give you some verbal motivation. Because all you crave right now is support. You can always come to these forums if you need support. Infertility treatments like IVF, IUI etc take a lot of tries for them to be successful. And it truly just depends on your luck. I had 3 fail tries of IUI before I finally conceive my beautiful rainbow. It can get frustrating but they key is you must not lose hopes. You have come this far. Hopefully, you will get through all these troubles soon. I am hoping I hear a good news in your next post. Good luck!

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Reply by sweetraquel » Jul. 5, 2018 1:18pm

Hey! I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must have been an extremely difficult condition for you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your loved one. We pray the love of God enfolds you during this difficult time. I know it is a bit old, but I could not stop myself from replying. I just want to give you some verbal motivation. Because all you crave right now is support. You can always come to these forums if you need support. Infertility treatments like IVF, IUI etc take a lot of tries for them to be successful. And it truly just depends on your luck. I had 3 fail tries of IUI before I finally conceive my beautiful rainbow. It can get frustrating but they key is you must not lose hopes. You have come this far. Hopefully, you will get through all these troubles soon. I am hoping I hear a good news in your next post. Good luck!

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Reply by SelenaJones » Jul. 5, 2018 1:23pm

Hi dear! Just read your post. So, yeah! I know what you're going through. Well, yes! That's how it goes! Keep going! Stay strong! I have my best wishes for you. I'm also having an IVF for this month at a repro center in Kiev. So, yeah! Best of luck! Yes! I'm glad that you're strong and rational enough to already have a backup plan. But, let's hope that you won't be needing that before.

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Reply by AshleyJones » Jul. 5, 2018 3:44pm

Hey there. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you're coming up from it. Don't lose hope. Surrogacy isn't that bad of an option. You can go for it. But I hope where you are working out well for you. Good luck!

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Reply by emmajoe303 » Jul. 7, 2018 8:46am

Hi there hope and belief that you are doing awesome. My continuous abortion for five years made me infertile. After discussing and getting suggestion from all sides i went to Ukraine then i was confident and i was blessed by a baby. I hope your failure in IVF will one day make you confident at the point when you will visit the good clinic. Average clinics always get failure. So, at the end of my message i will suggest the infertility problem facing women to go for the best clinic only because the clinic matters than the procedure i will say for Ukraine BiotexCom the best places having high success ratio from another place in the world. :)

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Reply by merry234 » Jul. 7, 2018 5:13pm

You must feel terrible because of these failures. At this moment, you may feel like giving up. But I would suggest that you be strong. Surrogacy is not a bad thing. You can opt for it too. Meanwhile, don't stress yourself. I hope you get pregnant soon.

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Reply by nina123 » Jul. 30, 2018 4:23pm

Greetings, I additionally came to think about Adonis. They are extortion. Also, they have an unhygienic domain and very discourteous staff, which doesn't much try to speak with individuals. They have demonstrated a terrible state of mind towards correspondence. It is absolutely futile to squander your opportunity and cash on such lamentable specialist co-ops. Though you can undoubtedly locate a decent one particularly in the event that you are living in Europe. You can even beware of the web you won't discover even a solitary decent survey about these raiders. But surrogacy is a good option, its safe all you have to do is choose a good clinic for yourself.

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Reply by nina123 » Aug. 3, 2018 4:42pm

Hey Ladies, I hope the majority of you know about BIOTEXCOM clinic London event. Yes, it is confirmed they are going to have an event on 18th and 19th of August in London. They are going to have their heads and expertise with them. There are a big number of people suffering from infertility but are unable to find a goof clinic. BIOTEXCOM clinic is giving you this opportunity, please don't waste it. Go, to the event share your issues with their amazing and experienced staff. They are ready to resolve them. This a golden chance for all of you. But you all need to know that there is a limited number of seats so register yourselves now.

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Reply by Rabecca88 » Aug. 4, 2018 4:07am

Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. I feel so sorry to hear about your miscarriages. It takes a lot from a woman. I am an infertile lady and had also passed through same condition. But you don't need to take the stress. Surrogacy is a great blessing for infertile. I had opted for it and went to Ukraine. Here I found a reputable clinic. I had a great journey at there. I had blessed with a baby girl through surrogacy. I suggest you also go for surrogacy. I hope you will be a mom soon. Best of luck to you. Stay blessed.

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Reply by ameliabrown2018 » Aug. 4, 2018 3:54pm

Hi gony, buddy I am so sorry. Nature has been very unkind to you. I really appreciate that you are positive about the treatment. Thats the spirit my lady. I hope there ll no need but if unfortunately this attempt fails then you should definitely go for surrogacy. I am also an infertile. I can understand your pain. I have been TTC for 10 long years but got no success. I am also considering surrogacy now. My DH and I tried to contact a clinic named L***s in Ukraine. Though we live in Ireland but we heard a lot of good stuff so we though to give a try. We emailed the clinic to get necessary details. Its been weeks now that we kept emailing them but they didnt bother to respond. We felt quite dishearten but we didnt gave up. We are searching for a more reliable clinic to start our treatment.

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Reply by bizzaro » Aug. 5, 2018 12:19pm

, I am so sorry for you dear. Please don't loose hope. There are many advanced treatments available like IVF and Surrogacy. please do not worry. i am also come from that time. but now i have a baby boy .but i know i clinic which can not give proper treatment. the L***S is waste of time. it also can not give complete treatment . thy do not have any proper equipment. I am so disappointed from their irresponsible behavior.This clinic is so unprofessional. stay clam and strong. i pray for you. I wish you a very good luck. My best wishes are with you."

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Reply by nina123 » Aug. 5, 2018 3:50pm

Hello everyone, it's been observed that there are now many solutions for infertility, which include surrogacy and IVF as the safest and successful ones. People who are going through this phase of life should not lose hope because there are many good clinics offering these procedures with guaranteed results. You can look for them on the internet. I would suggest you all go to a fertility clinic, it's in Ukraine and it has a good success rate. Many people are satisfied with their services. Infertility is very difficult to face but trust me there are plenty of solutions for you guys.

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Reply by HannahMarlee » Aug. 6, 2018 10:30pm

Hey, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to hear about you. I hope things work for you. Otherwise surrogacy is best option. But let me tell choosing the right procedure is not only the battle but choosing the right clinic is also. I have been facing infertility for so long. And few months back i decided for surrogacy. I found a clinic on faced L***s. i contacted the clinic. I emailed them. even made calls to them for a month. But they didn't with we answered my calls or replied to my emails. Beware of such scammers. All they know how to disappoint you. I am so depressed because of them . I wish i had never contacted them. I lost my hopes because of them. Be careful when you choose one. Its s hard to find right one.

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Reply by Lindsay2689 » Aug. 7, 2018 5:01pm

Gony, It is not easy I know. In fact, we all the women here know that infertility is not an easy journey. It requires lots of stamina and lots and lots of patience. The constant disappointment becomes the fate for many of us. I have been through the journey for 9 years. Thank heaven that I am now pursuing surrogacy at the European fertility center. And believe me, it has restored my faith in believing, hoping that there is nothing impossible. It has allowed me to dream again, live again. I am half way through my journey. the surrogate has issued us confirmation of being preg, yey!! Cant thanks enough the doctor and the staff who were very facilitating and accommodating our needs. I would recommend you to waste no time and sign up for surrogacy.

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Reply by emly21 » Aug. 8, 2018 5:15pm

I can understand that this is a really tough situation to go through. I am so sorry to hear about your MC. Just be strong and remain brave. Infertility is the worst disease in human's life. Surrogacy and IVF is the best treatment for infertility. Many women are very depressed due to infertility. I'm also infertile due to heart disease. My doctor said to me that I cannot conceive later we moved to Europe for surrogacy. Now I have my own baby. .There are many good clinics in Europe. That's provides the best treatment for infertility. Now I have my own baby. Don't take tension. Surrogacy is the good option. I will pray for you that you become a mother soon. Take care of your health.

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