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Category: Special - Miscarriage & Loss
Posted by riatom » Dec. 18, 2017 6:40am

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Hi everyone, how are you all? I have married 2 years ago. I and my husband tried hard to get pregnant. My husband always supports me in any case. What to do with in laws? My sister in law teases me so much. I am thinking for IVF. I need information. What did it costs? Is there any further proceedings to follow up once I conceived through IVF? I am too much worried for myself. Someone else in the same boat, please tell? Take care of yourself all of you. TIA.



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Reply by jenn945 » Feb. 5, 2018 4:06pm

HEY, RIATOM!...stay strong girl life will be happy soon.The teasing is just human nature it shouldn't bother you as those people cannot understand the pain of being childless.For you, IVF, IUI, and surrogacy as well must be kept in mind.Go to doctor get a good consultation.You cannot just go by peoples recommendations or opinions.Get your self-checked may be there will be no issue with you in bearing a child yourself.Stay positive sister!


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Reply by RihanaSam » Feb. 21, 2018 5:27pm

Hello all!
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
Like i was facing miscarriages every time i conceived.
I don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
He agreed to my proposal so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details.
But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby of our own.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.


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Reply by saramccartney123 » Mar. 6, 2018 8:36pm

Ignore your sister in law. You cant stop them so just ignore them. Hopefully, you will get pregnant with IVF. If you conceive, the doctor will arrange your appointments himself till it's needed. The time at the start is critical. After a few weeks, it will all be fine and normal. Good luck.


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Reply by SelenaJones » Mar. 7, 2018 1:40pm

Hi Ria. How are you holding up dear? I'm also about to have an IVF later this year at a reproduction center in Kiev, Ukraine. Well, I'm having it there in Ukraine due to my affordability and someone's recommendation. We have chosen a package of around 9900 Euros and it has around 5 attempts...It's a guaranteed package. We have researched many clinics in the USA but I didn't find any of them much affordable. so, now you can have an idea what's its like. Anyway! I wish you all the best. Stay blessed! I hope it works out for you. TC! xx


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Reply by monika123 » Mar. 7, 2018 4:19pm

It honestly hurts when people around you especially when your loved ones hurt you and make you realise that you don't have a child. Also, if you want to go for IVF you first need to make sure if you really can. As when I went to my clinic they basically told us that I couldn't and it was preferable that I go for surrogacy. The reason behind was that I an anorexic patient also have a poor ovarian reserve. They said that this will affect the babies health also there are lower chances of mine to conceive. It was really considerate of them, to be honest, and care about my health as well. So my recommendation to you will be to visit the doctor and ask them for advice. Other than that IVF is definitely a good option to consider, best of luck.


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Reply by JanetJames » Mar. 7, 2018 7:00pm

Hey Ria, I hope you are doing well. Really sorry to hear about your problem. It's really nice to hear that your husband is so supportive of you. You should not really listen to anyone else. If you have your husband that's all you really need. It's your life, not your sister in-law's life. Take your time. Do your research then only take a decision. Yes IVF is a great option. You should consult your doctor about IVF. I hope it helps. Looking forward to hearing from you.


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Reply by Amelia » Mar. 8, 2018 10:50am

riatom I read your post and really feeling depressed for you. you shouldn’t bother your in-laws. Feel happy that your husband is with you. he is providing his full support to defend you from all hurdles and troubles. It’s a blessing for a woman when his husband trusts her and support her. Many women are deprived of this blessing. IVF cost varies. It depends on different countries where you want to have treatment. For instance, if you want to have form UK then the roughly estimated amount is 5000 euros for one cycle if you go to a private clinic. Meanwhile, India is offering 150000 to 250000. It depends on which advanced technological assistance in IVF you gain. While frozen embryo transfer rate is RS. 1,20,000 apart from IVF. As far as the matter of pain it also depends on your eggs production. If you have 4-5 eggs, then the pain and bloating are endurable. With this condition, your success rate can be decreased. A better solution is to go with your husband hand collect all information that you may want to know.


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Reply by rihana012 » Mar. 15, 2018 3:18pm

Hey! Everyone. I am a little disappointed and depressed. Its been 4 years to my marriage. I am trying to conceive a baby for 4 years but the result is 4 miscarriages. I am so depressed. my husband is so supportive but I want my own baby. So someone suggested us surrogacy and IVF. That is my last hope to have a baby. Now I am searching for a clinic. There are two options we have now. one clinic is in Ukraine and the other UK. The one in the UK is way too expensive. The other clinic is a bit affordable. Now I am confused whether I should go for IVF or surrogacy. I want my own baby. Someone suggested me that I should go for surrogacy because it is safe and have more chances of success. and the baby would genetically belong to me. So i made my mind to have surrogacy.


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Reply by Hannahh123 » Feb. 3, 2019 8:41pm

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Reply by Hannahh123 » Oct. 12, 2019 5:14pm

You should be happy that your husband is supportive. It doesn't matter what your inlaws have to say about that. Good luck to you. I hope things get better. IVF is an amazing procedure to consider. I am also at the start of the IVF process. Things are going really well. One of the major reasons for that is a good clinic.


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Reply by Kate141 » 1 week ago

Hello
The question of proceedings differs from country to country. I'm sure that each exact clinic will explain it to you. But, for sure, that is a good way out for girls like us.
I'm through my SM process and everything seems to be nice.
So I'm sure, you should also try


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