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My Due Date: February 15, 2016I have given birth!
Age: 35 years old
Location: Butte, MT, United States
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Stressed 15w4d
By tcannon630 » Posted Aug. 28, 2015 5:41pm - 458 views - 3 comments
My husband and his ex wife are in a big custody battle, it's nothing that was unexpected as she is a woman with 5 kids 4 daddys and we knew our day with her would come... it's been rough the last year with her having domestic violence charges on her current husband (#6) and then right now she is currently on trial for truancy charges because she can't get the kids to school. She is very careless when it comes to what is best for her children... brainwashing, forcing them to call all her flings daddy... things like that. We've been managing and have had them a ton the last year, and the last 3 months we've had the kids thur-sun every week. Well she decided to go crazy again this week and is now keeping them from us... text my husband he can't see them. Cops won't do anything here and as of right now we can't even get a court date until November. The thought of not seeing them for a few months is scary especially knowing that her husband left her a few weeks ago, she has no job, does drugs during the day(we've heard from others) has a few boyfriends... it's chaos. We can't even protect our own children. My husband acts strong but I can see the heartbreak in his eyes, he is a wonderful man and father and got caught in her web years ago. How could a mother keep her kids from a father let alone a good father and try to replace him with scum. The sad thing is... one of her older children hasn't seen his father or other siblings in a year because of her, and like i said before the cops don't do anything... she's the type that can lie her way through anything, she's been held in contempt for not following parenting plans a handful of times and walks away with nothing... how does that happen. She's destroying her kids lives and could care less as long as she makes every ex of hers that SHE has trapped miserable. I just don't understand how someone could be so selfish, hateful and careless about their own children. We don't have any family around for support, we only live where we do to be close to the kids we can't even see. There has to be justice right?! It will all catch up to her one day?! At this point what do we do... just sit here and wait... wait 3 months and allow our kids to be turned against us, be taken around dozens of men, live in a dump being fed nothing but McDonald's because their mother doesn't cook. It's so heartbreaking... I hope they know how much we love them even if she's telling them we don't. they are 5 & 7, please pray for their protection when we can't protect them ourselves. I hope we can get primary custody and give them the life and future they deserve. Sorry to vent on here, we don't post anything about this stuff on FB but I needed to get it out somehow.
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Stressed 15w4d
By tcannon630 » Posted Aug. 28, 2015 5:41pm - 458 views - 3 comments
My husband and his ex wife are in a big custody battle, it's nothing that was unexpected as she is a woman with 5 kids 4 daddys and we knew our day with her would come... it's been rough the last year with her having domestic violence charges on her current husband (#6) and then right now she is currently on trial for truancy charges because she can't get the kids to school. She is very careless when it comes to what is best for her children... brainwashing, forcing them to call all her flings daddy... things like that. We've been managing and have had them a ton the last year, and the last 3 months we've had the kids thur-sun every week. Well she decided to go crazy again this week and is now keeping them from us... text my husband he can't see them. Cops won't do anything here and as of right now we can't even get a court date until November. The thought of not seeing them for a few months is scary especially knowing that her husband left her a few weeks ago, she has no job, does drugs during the day(we've heard from others) has a few boyfriends... it's chaos. We can't even protect our own children. My husband acts strong but I can see the heartbreak in his eyes, he is a wonderful man and father and got caught in her web years ago. How could a mother keep her kids from a father let alone a good father and try to replace him with scum. The sad thing is... one of her older children hasn't seen his father or other siblings in a year because of her, and like i said before the cops don't do anything... she's the type that can lie her way through anything, she's been held in contempt for not following parenting plans a handful of times and walks away with nothing... how does that happen. She's destroying her kids lives and could care less as long as she makes every ex of hers that SHE has trapped miserable. I just don't understand how someone could be so selfish, hateful and careless about their own children. We don't have any family around for support, we only live where we do to be close to the kids we can't even see. There has to be justice right?! It will all catch up to her one day?! At this point what do we do... just sit here and wait... wait 3 months and allow our kids to be turned against us, be taken around dozens of men, live in a dump being fed nothing but McDonald's because their mother doesn't cook. It's so heartbreaking... I hope they know how much we love them even if she's telling them we don't. they are 5 & 7, please pray for their protection when we can't protect them ourselves. I hope we can get primary custody and give them the life and future they deserve. Sorry to vent on here, we don't post anything about this stuff on FB but I needed to get it out somehow.
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 | Comment from tcannon630 » Posted Aug. 29, 2015 8:24pm Thank you so much for the support, hopefully our lawyer can request a sooner court date, it should help that her other baby daddys have held her in contempt about 6 times for not following the parenting plan and another of her ex's actually got primary custody a few years ago for his kid because she never took him to school like she's doing with our 2. It's so unpredictable though... again thank you, I appreciate your kind words. |
 | Comment from CaityMarie_ » Posted Aug. 29, 2015 1:38pm That is pure madness. My family had to go through a similar situation years ago for my niece. My thoughts, prayers, & love go out to guys <3 |
 | Comment from thomasanddawnxoxo » Posted Aug. 28, 2015 7:55pm I completely understand your situation. I have a baby momma to deal with too. Thankfully she isn't a b enough to interfere with dh's court ordered parenting time but when he doesn't bow to her every wish she threatens court. He always tells her go ahead. Last time she actually tried to use the courts to her advantage it backfired on her. During proceedings They found out she didn't have my step daughter in daycare like she claimed in previous hearings. So not only did they give dh more parenting time ( she was trying to have it reduced) they also cut child support in half and dh actually got a refund on the child support she acquired fraudulently. The system is starting to recognize dads rights more and more. So hang in there, judges are starting to get tired of moms pulling this bs. |
