Questions & Answers

Hey Pheobe, you are looking so much stressed. just relaxed. This is not the end of life. I know giving birth to a child is indeed what every woman craves for. This feeling is unmatched with any other pleasures of life. But if it is not happening with you. It's not your fault. Why are you blaming yourself? Why are you hiding from other people? When I came to know that I am having double infertility, I was also very depressed. But I didn't hide it from anyone. I joined a group of people having the same condition as me. There somebody told me about surrogacy. Now next month I am going to Ukraine for my surrogacy. I am not hiding it from anybody. If I can't conceive naturally then God has opened a new door for me. So, you also don't hide it from anyone. There is nothing wrong with it.

Hey, sweety! How are you? Well, I think you are just over thinking in this matter. Surrogacy is not a bad thing. You should not really hide this from anyone. Being infertile is a big problem itself. Why do you want to burden yourself by hiding it forever? There are so many good clinics. They will keep everything a secret. But the thing is that you should be brave enough to tell this to everyone. Hiding it from people is not the solution to this. If you have finally decided to choose this, then choose it bravely. I know it's hard. I understand that you are going through a lot of pain. But that does not mean that you should lose hope. Losing hope will make you stressed. Make sure to take proper care of yourself. And think wisely about your decision again. Good luck!

Hey. I'm good. Thank you for asking. To answer your question, I think it is possible. You need to choose the right clinic for it. A good clinic takes care of your discretion. You cannot hide it from your husband though. It is possible to hide it from your family. I know it's your decision. But you really shouldn't be ashamed of this if that is the reason for you to hide it. Infertility is a very common problem. It could happen to anyone. It is not your fault. So there is nothing to be ashamed of. You can go to the clinic I went to for my surrogacy. They did all the work very efficiently. I wish you good luck with it. Please don't lose hope just yet. You will become a parent soon.

ey, there I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss it must be extremely devastating.
However, you shouldn't be afraid to go for surrogacy as it is a rescue for so many women who are unable to conceive naturally. It is a great method as it allows one to be genetically linked with the baby and has a high rate of success as well. Being in the same boat I was lucky enough to find a clinic which is very inexpensive as compared to the clinic where I live. The clinic was doing the treatment legally and was also ensuring that everyone was following the legal framework. I was concerned about the health of the surrogates one of the reasons why I didn't opt for private surrogacy. However, was glad to find out that in this clinic they had a medical test and if one passed it then they were only eligible to be the surrogates. Once a surrogate was pregnant she had to visit the clinic daily for check-ups as well. This was honestly amazing as the clinic was so efficient. Please share your review.

Hey there phoebe. I can understand. You're going through a very difficult phase of life. There's no shame in it really. Many celebrities had their babies through surrogacy. They are telling it to the whole world. Baby is a blessing from God. You don't need to hide it. Much Love!

Hi crystal. Well dear what can I say. I am stressed because I am so much worried. I want to hide it. I am unable to find a way that how could I do this. Every way seems difficult. I can't take help from anyone. That is why I am on this forum. Asking you guys. Hope now you understand why I am worried. Please help me.

Well Kathy truly you are great, I know what you said is correct. I am happy for you. Your husband supported you and you got what you want. I have problem exactly here. My husband is very supportive of me. I have no problem from his side. What my problem is. I can't show it to the world. You know I am related to the world where it's not possible. If anyone knows what I am going through. It's going to be a big disaster for me. I just want to hide it. I don't want anyone to know about it. I know about the clinic. You know I went there as well. I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to them about my condition. It was really difficult for me to talk to them as well. It's like I have no strength. I don't know what to do. It's really difficult for me. I want help in this regard. Can you suggest me some more things.

Firstly Pheobe do not be disheartened at all. It is not the end of the world. You may think so but it may actually be just the beginning. I have gone through what you have. I wil not tell you that it will be easy. Everything will not just become alright all of a sudden and very easily. There will be challenges you have to face. T
here will be difficulties but you have to remain strong. I was unable to have a child because I had to have my uterus removed because of complications. I was facing and thinking exactly the same things you were. However, my husband supported me throughout the process. We eventually ended up choosing surrogacy as well as an option. I visited an amazing clinic in Ukraine and we had our child there. You might have the fwar that you will not be too spiritually connected to the child. But that is not true at all. I love my child and I was constantly in contact with the surrogate mother at each stage. Surrogacy isn't the end it is a beginnning for your child.

Aww, you poor girl. Why are you so stressed? Take your time out and tell us the reason for your infertility maybe it can be cured.Most women can conceive naturally as long as they are on the right path.Coming from a woman who has been dealing with 'forced infertility' for quite some time now I can imagine your pain and frustration well. Do not give up hope. People some time succeed after 5 to 6 years of TTC and it all works out in the end. I'm sorry if you find this offensive as I do not know the exact condition that you are in.It has never been my intention to harm anyone's feeling in any way and I hope the things I have said you will take them positively.Also, surrogacy is such a huge blessing for infertile couples I mean I would understand if you are shy because of it. I mean not all families are alike but if you are considered about the abstract morality of the process and not peoples opinion then it is the best thing to go for. Even then if you are really concerned about your priv

Hey there. I am fine. Thanks for asking. How are you?
You are highly stressed. Stay calm my friend. It seems like you are giving up on life. Don't do that. Stay hopeful. Stay positive. Clam yourself down.
May I ask a question? What is the reason that you are only left with surrogacy? No doubts, surrogacy is a great deal in itself. People are having babies from it.
If you would have clearly mentioned more about the reasons it would have been easier to help you.
Wish you luck.
Be strong.
Stay blessed.
Xxx.