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Q: So I have been thinking alot about my past miss misscarriage..

I have been stressed that this one may go the same way but I have a feeling it definatly wont! In my last pregnancy I had a severe urine infetion from 8 weeks onwards... so bad I needed to sit in boiling hot baths days on end to take away the yucky feeling... then I read hot baths can be very dangerous for the baby. Becuase it wasnt a natural misscarriage, could this have been the cause for the babys heart to stop beating? Anyway, was just on my mind, im avoiding hot baths and showers alltogether this time.

This question was asked Mar. 29, 2012 10:16pm
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Answered by faith17 - Mar. 29, 2012 11:44pm

i know how you feel ived misscarried before and even though i only knew my little one for 8 weeks i loved him/her so much ,im pregnant again and at first ive kept thinking the same thing was going to happen but im 22 weeks now although im exicted to have made it this far im still afraid you just got to leave it to god .
i wish you a happy healthly 9 months

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Answered by ayoung102 - Mar. 30, 2012 9:12pm

I had a missed miscarriage at 7 1/2weeks and didn't naturally miscarry until 11 weeks. I am terrified of the same thing happening again. I don't think either of our miscarriages were because of something we did. Sometimes its just genetics. But I would avoid hot baths for sure just in case. We are both going to have happy and healthy babies this time! Cheers!

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Answered by sweetraquel - Jul. 7, 2018 1:25pm

HY DEAR!! Extremely sad about your past misfortune. Happy that you didn't surrender and take that positive. You should not lose trust. You can overcome barrenness issue effectively. There may a few reasons that make entanglements amongst you and your infant. You simply need to go for checkup routinely. Keeping away from things for your own particular great is best for one's self. Longing that every one of your preliminaries may vanish away. God bless you

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Answered by SelenaJones - Jul. 8, 2018 4:41pm

Stay careful. I'm sorry to hear of your loss in the past. So, yeah! Stay strong! Go with it. I'm also having my surrogacy procedure next month at a center in Kiev. Just waiting for dates to get confirmed. So, yeah! Keep going is the key. Let us know! I'd love to know when you deliver. Stay blessed! More baby dust to you. :)

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Answered by emly21 - Aug. 26, 2018 12:50pm

Hello there! I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Miscarriage is the worst thing It takes a lot from women. I had not any experience of MC. But I had experience of infertility. Actually, I'm suffering from Mitral stenosis. Its a type of heart disease. That's why I couldn't give birth to my child. My fertility clinic suggests me surrogacy. After a long time of struggle, Finally, Yesterday I hold my baby in my hands. That was the pleasurable movement for me. I advise you to consult with a good clinic. I must suggest you take the proper test. I do prayers for you that you will become a mother soon. Take care of yourself. Good luck.

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Answered by Martina65 - Jul. 9, 2018 3:40am

Hello there! I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Miscarriage is the worst thing ever happens in a women life. It takes a lot from women. I had also faced a miscarriage thrice in a period of five years infertility. Then finally become a mother through surrogacy process. I had blessed with a baby girl through surrogacy. Well, I suggest that you should take care of yourself and don't think about the past. I hope you will be a mom soon. God bless you.

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Answered by riya2019 - Jul. 7, 2018 6:09pm

The choice is really hard between IVF or surrogacy. IVF is a little risky. However, surrogacy is safe and secure. No changes in failure. I am also going to opt for surrogacy. I am glad that I decided to do so. I hope more people go for it.

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Answered by lidya2 - Jul. 8, 2018 10:35am

I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. I know it must be really hard. Miscarriage can't be because of a hot bath. I know you are upset but get a hold on yourself. I know I have been through this road before. It's never easy. I hope things get better. I hope this help. I wish you good luck. Take care.

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Answered by Hayleh - Jul. 7, 2018 2:34pm

Hi there! Sorry about your previous loss. Glad that you didn't give up and take that positive. You should not lose hope. Infertility now can be treated very easily. There may some reasons that create complications between you and your baby. You just have to go for checkup regularly. It is very necessary if you want to defeat the infertility problem, you should be a positive attitude and positive affirmation in their life. It is medically proved that the main reason for infertility is stress and depression. Take care.

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Answered by jenn945 - Feb. 20, 2018 1:07pm

well, i feel like these must be not the reason.During pregnancies, one feels that she is doing something wrong every time.This is all very normal.You must be happy for the big news now.You must not think about the past.But just to make sure that you had nothing to do with it.You must consult a doctor.But hopefully, this was all natural.No mother can do such a thing to her baby.

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