Questions & Answers

This is a decision that only YOU can make. Don't let him pressure you into an abortion. As far as causing a miscarriage, you can but it has to be done early in pregnancy. I do believe that 10 weeks is too far along to work. I have been faced with the decision twice in my life and it is a hard decision to make but it is a decision that only YOU can make regardless of what anyone else thinks or says. No one knows your situation but YOU. It is not our place to judge you, it is our place to support you in any decision you make. If you want to talk, feel free to message me. Sending you a HUG!!!

If this guy clearly isn't ready for fatherhood he is entitled to that opinion, but he was ready enough to concieve the baby and he should stand up to the plate and get ready. No one is every ready for this huge change in life. If he is still against the idea, what about raising the baby on your own? I dont believe a baby should suffer because of his opinion.
As for the forced miscarriage I dont believe there is anything you can do intentionally to miscarry. You would have to talk to your dr.
I really hope you make the right choice :(.
Praying you do.

i agree with everyone else, i would tell this guy where to stick it or not stick it as the case may be next time if hes not prepared to take any responsibility, only u can make the decision i just hope u make the ryt 1, theres so much support u can get

What the hell?? I think you need to leave this idiot!! I guess that really shows the truth about his personality. I would never choose my boyfriend over my unborn child. Adoption is always an option if you both not ready! Be strong!!

Whether you decide to keep the baby or not (and it is YOUR choice, not anyone else's. Both options are fine, but the decision needs to come from you), you should know that if decide not to continue with the pregnancy it is essential that you have a legal and safe abortion. Self-induced abortion is both illegal and incredibly dangerous. It would put you at risk of infection or bleeding to death. Take some time away from your boyfriend to consider what you want. Go and see a doctor, and get some professional advice about your options.

I really hope everything works out ok for you, all the best.

Wow that is devistating :'( and a forced mc is also illegal . He's pathetic and should of thought of that when he was having sex????? I really hope you choose your baby over that pathetic piece of crap. Your only a couple weeks away from your second trimester. Your baby will never leave you or give up on you. Would you really choose killing your baby over him? Look at what kind of person he is. Stick up for your baby and tell him what he can do with his murderous thoughts. You will so regret it for the rest of your life if you do it. I had my first baby at 15 and my ex boyfriend wanted me to abort. Thank god I didnt, that baby was perfect. there's tons of help out there for you , you will be just fine, and you will be in heaven when you are holding that precious baby!!!

murder..or precious life that God picked you to grow ....hmmm...tell that a-hole of a boyfriend to take a hike!

I agree with everyone else, what kind of man would suggest that? I think you need to be a mom to your baby to be and ditch him! A real man would take care of you and be responsible for his actions, it takes 2 to tango, you didn't get yourself pregnant. You and your baby deserve so much better! I'd never ever chose any man no matter how much I loved them over my child, born or unborn! Not judging at all, just saying!

My DH's mom was a pregnant teenager and the guy promised her he'd marry her if she got an abortion. She choose the baby over the guy (and thankfully so or my DH wouldn't be here). I think it's horrible that he'd even suggest you should do that. Do you have a family member or friend who can help you through this? You need supportive people in your life right now, not those who would want you to make such a choice. You should focus on your baby now, not the BF. If you feel you are not ready for a baby, there's always adoption (afterall, it's not your baby's fault). Just don't make a decision you may regret for the rest of your life over some guy. I'm sorry you're in this situation and I wish you all the best.

wow. I am with LWilliams on this one. Is there anyone you can talk to about it? it is true though if it were between my baby and my bf.. my baby would win.