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Asked by PrettySue

Q: What happened to you when you miscarried?

I'm not saying I am miscarrying but I've been having mild cramps and had a light brown discharge. and my lower back is killing me. Also the cramps go away when I eat. And I had and internal exam yesterday. I am just curious and scared. Thanks.

This question was asked Jun. 9, 2012 10:50am
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by Amelia - Jul. 3, 2018 7:11pm
Pretty Sue hi! Why are you going through this? dear try to consult your doctor immediately. I think he will guide you in a better way. you shouldn’t lose hope. you should go for a treatment now. I hope your reports will be positive. Don’t say this again dude. You should take a complete bed rest at least for a week.

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Answered by RihanaSam - Jul. 3, 2018 5:06pm
I was very sad when i miscarried. I was pregnant after 4 years of TTC. I was happy at my pregnancy but it ended with miscarriage. Again i was pregnant for 2 more times. But these two also resulted in MC. I was heart broken. My husband left me and i was all alone. Now i am married for second time and i have decided to go for surrogacy to have a baby.

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Answered by RihanaSam - Mar. 24, 2018 5:40pm
When i had my miscarriage i was very upset.Then i had 2 more miscarriages.Which broke me totally.
So i gave up in getting pregnant again.Don't worry dear.
There is a solution to every problem today.
If you are unable to have a baby from your own womb then why not you go for surrogacy.
Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby with your own DNA.
Don't lose any hope dear i'm also 43 years old and i have also no luck with kids.
I had many complications regarding pregnancy.I conceived for 3 times but resulted in miscarriages every time.So i also gave up on getting pregnant again and again.I researched over the web for different methods of having babies and i came across surrogacy.Surrogacy is a good solution for mothers like us who can't have a baby of their own.While researching about surrogacy i came across a clinic many times.There are very positive reviews about it over the internet.
So i contacted the clinic and told them my complications they will help.?

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Answered by momtobe1992 - Jun. 10, 2012 4:18pm
When there is a lot of blood like AF then ofcourse we think we're having a miscarriage....I was getting dinner ready on the table for my step-son and husband. I felt my underwear wet, I thought it was just discharge because I was having a lot during my pregnancy. I set the table and went to the bathroom, it was blood with some clots, heavy and pink, like AF. Instantly I started crying, and started to shake. This being my first pregnancy, I didn't know what to do. I called my doctor and she told me I was having a miscarriage. She told me not to go to the ER but I went anyhow. My DH and I waited until 2 am to find out that the baby was ok. The bleeding was because I have a subchorionic hemorrhage (a sac filled with blood by the placenta). I was so happy I didn't lose my baby. Now I'm 9 weeks pregnant and so far so good.

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Answered by Brittany0915 - Jun. 9, 2012 6:57pm
dont let these stories scare you ok. it really may be nothing at all. I had alot of spotting when i was pregnant with my son, and at 16 weeks i finally found out it was from the low lying placenta. there can be plenty of reasons for this, mostly being the exam. praying for the best outcome for you!

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Answered by PrettySue - Jun. 9, 2012 5:59pm
the cramps stopped for a while, and just started again after walking around today. I had a tiny tiny amount of brown creamy discharge. And when i wiped i had a small almost visible red streak. I called the nurses station and the guy asked a bunch of questions, and in the end said he wasn't worried. And see i was skeptical about the internal exam. I am not bleeding though, and its not constant...i just hope everything is all right. :-(

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Answered by TigerLilly0930 - Jun. 9, 2012 4:33pm
When I miscarried, I woke up in the morning with cramps like AF was coming, and dark brownish red discharge. I tried not to panic, but with the cramping came intense back pain, and when I went to the bathroom again a few hrs later, I had passed a small clot. I was seen by my OB at the time, who said that it was probably a miscarriage, but that she couldn't officially tell me until the bloodwork went through. my worst fears were confirmed 3 hrs later. I also have o negative blood and required a shot during the m/c.

I reccommend that if you have any feeling whatso ever that you are uncomftorable and want to know for sure if you are miscarrying, that you go to the ER or to you OBGYN for peace of mind. It was the scariest, most emotional experience of my life. I was 6w4d when I miscarried, and was so excited for a baby. The good news is, that just 5 weeks later, I got pregnant and am now 21w5d pregnant with no complications. Best of luck to you, hang in there. <3

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Answered by dori502 - Jun. 9, 2012 2:51pm
I had an internal exam last year at 11 weeks ( new doctor) I was feeling amazing and I had no problems until that day;( After the exam I went home so at night my back started to ache so bad. Next day ( my DH birthday) we were out for a dinner so when I went to the bathroom to pee I saw blood in my urine.. In this moment I knew the worst was coming.. I call my dr and she told me it was normal because of the internal exam.. If I wasnt with cramps or heavy blood I was fine.. So I think everything was fine.. 3 days later I was inside the ER loosing my baby.. With the most painful cramp.. I am pg again ( 3 months later) and this time I did not let any doctor do internal exam in myself.. I am sure the internal exam was the responsible for my miscarriage. I know how you fell and I ask God to bless you with a other little angel.. I am sorry for your loss.. It is too much pain.. Take care

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Answered by mrsfitzy - Jun. 9, 2012 1:23pm
Hi with my first misscarrige i was sat down at a wedding and all of a sudden felt wet down my legs,no pains cramps ect was heavy bleeding that stopped they sent me home from emergency room i was 8week 2days when i went bk at 10week 2day my babies had passed the day b4 on my scan was 1 baby and 2 sacs.On my 2nd mc i was shopping and felt really wet went to the bathroom and it was alot of discharge,i started to bleed the next day went to er was sent home again only to go bk the next day as i was loosing huge clots very quick i dont remember cramps or pains just really heavy feeling just b4 the blood past,and i had a dnc with both.Happy to say im now 7weeks with no6 :)

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Answered by babyspraker - Jun. 9, 2012 12:35pm
Part 2: I'm bummed and upsest about it all, but I'm okay. At least we know that we CAN get pregnant and that everything works there. I just need to get checked out and as soon as the doc releases me, we'll start trying again. Its hard, its sad, and its frustrating, but life does go on. I have to remember that. It isn't the end of the world. I need to brush of the dirt and get back on the horse! Good luck to everyone and baby dust!

I had the brown discharge for several days. Everything else felt fine. Then last night I had a normal period, except the cramps were a little more intense and there was a lot of clots (which I don't normally have). My ER doc scolded me for not being seen earlier for the bleeding. I just didn't want to hear what I didn't want to hear. Looking back, I wish I would have. If you have doubts, please go be seen. Good luck!

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