Questions & Answers

You agreed to a threesome while pregnant? I don't understand that at all. Besides that fact, this is completely unhealthy and abusive and you need to leave now!!!

You need to leave before you have that baby. As a mother you have to do whatever you can to protect your child. Go to a church or shelter they will help you and protect you, and if not the police. And these things he's telling you are just so he can control you and make you feel less than and afraid. If you can get evidence of the physical abuse, but if not just leave and know that your love for for your child will bring you strength and courage to make it through this.

Oh my god, not only did he assault you he assaulted his own child by punching you in the stomach. He is a pathetic human being and you need to think about your baby and leave him. Please please give your head a shake and step back for 2 minutes and look at the situation. If someone else asked this question how would you respond? Your baby is number 1 and staying with this horrible man is putting you and your child in danger. Leave now & do not be one of these stupid women who stay "because I love him" he does not love you. I'm sorry if this is harsh but this is a very bad situation you are in.

Oh Hun, you need to get out now while you can. If he's doing this to you I can't imagine how he will be to your baby. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to find help before it's too late. Go to a womens shelter or go to the police. You can't live like that. He could hurt your baby or really hurt you. I hope you can find some safety. Get help.

omg! Pack your bags and go back to canada now!! And have your baby over there!! Dont tell him or anyone else until your gone.

Get out while you can. Come back to Canada, and raise the baby by yourself! You must have family/friends back here. No one needs an ass like that around, especially with a new baby around! You and your baby deserve better. Best of luck!

Oh honey, get out now. I would even think about contacting the police and getting a restraining order. He has assalted you physically and mentally. He is capable of more if you don't get out now. You don't need to wait to save money. Go the the police and they will get you in contact with someone who will help you if you don't have anyone to turn to. Please, please get help now.

I don't think it is healthy or safe for you or your unborn baby to be in this situation. Do you have family you can be with in Canada or elsewhere? It sounds like you need to get out of there NOW! Especially if he is hitting and punching you. Don't stand for that!

I talked to my DH, he said that he was just saying those things so I would shape-up. What kind of man tells this to his pregnant wife? about 3 weeks ago he told me to have a threesome with another man and him. And I agreed to it. we were at someone elses place and after that he slapped me and ran away. He left me with a guy that I didn't know, I quickly walked out. I was crying and didn't know where I was or what to do. My Dh finaly found me walking on the street and told me to come in the car. And as stupid as I was, I got into the car. I felt like I betrayed him. I felt like it was my fault. After I got into the car, he punched me, slapped me, punched me in my stomache. I couldnt get out of the car either because he was driving so fast..the next day he saw a bruise on my face, by my eye and became all lovey dovey. I get nightmares because of that day. He brings it up in every fight we have...I'm just trapped. I'm sure after a while, I'm going to save money and just walk out on him...

*precious baby.