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Q: had sex with my ex boyfriend after my period and sex with my boyfriend on my ovulation.who my bd?

had sex with my ex boyfriend after my period and sex with my boyfriend on my ovulation and idk who might be my baby father

This question was asked Dec. 5, 2012 8:37pm
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Answered by a member - Dec. 7, 2012 10:28am
i dont think people are trying to make her feel bad, i think people disagree with the cheating part of it....... Im sorry but i cannot stand people who cheat, there is no excuss for it. And now there is a baby involved....

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 10:03pm
Even so. but there will be 3 people and a little bubba that will have to go though paternity testing, disappointment, and loss. all because they were being "promiscuous" Maybe if people were more careful and used some kind of protection with boyfriend or even cheating with ex boyfriends then maybe there would be less single mums on the poverty line struggling to make ends meet. Especially when the economy is so effed up. It very sad. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I hope you and your baby well and you find out sooner rather than later who the baby Daddeo is.

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 8:18pm
At least she's brave enough to have the baby and not cover up her mistake. How many of you ever slept with someone who was not your baby's father? Are you any better at all? Speaking as someone who waited until marriage to have sex for the first time, I still think you are wrong to criticize. We all fall sometimes, whether through sex, lying, pride, gluttony, greed, jealousy, gossip, or spite. And from falling, we should learn compassion and empathy, and help each other move forward and grow.

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 4:20pm
It is probably true that the person that you had sex with right around ovulation is the father. However, are you definitely sure that is when you ovulated? The other members are right, the most definite way to find out will be to have a paternity test after the baby is born. Wish you all the best.

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 2:18pm
young, promiscuous, low education...? do you people know this girl.?? seriously, i didnt realize you were all perfect. we dont know this girl or her life, or anything at all about her except that she had sex with 2 people, 2 weeks apart. OMG thats AMAZING! its not like it was the same day, or a 3-sum for gods sake. there are FAR worse people out there who deserve judgment before this girl.
the person you had sex with closest to ovulation is most likely the babys father. I hope things work out for you, and you have a healthy pregnancy and baby. Life can be tough, and NONE of us are perfect. the important thing is we learn from our mistakes. dont listen to a bunch of adult bullies who in no way want to help. i dont see why they dont simply ignore the question rather then making this girl feel worse. Im sure shes going through a hard time, a little help or support would be nice.

good luck to you sweetie

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 2:18pm
young, promiscuous, low education...? do you people know this girl.?? seriously, i didnt realize you were all perfect. we dont know this girl or her life, or anything at all about her except that she had sex with 2 people, 2 weeks apart. OMG thats AMAZING! its not like it was the same day, or a 3-sum for gods sake. there are FAR worse people out there who deserve judgment before this girl.
the person you had sex with closest to ovulation is most likely the babys father. I hope things work out for you, and you have a healthy pregnancy and baby. Life can be tough, and NONE of us are perfect. the important thing is we learn from our mistakes. dont listen to a bunch of adult bullies who in no way want to help. i dont see why they dont simply ignore the question rather then making this girl feel worse. Im sure shes going through a hard time, a little help or support would be nice.

good luck to you sweetie

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Answered by looney - Dec. 6, 2012 2:45am
Gosh guys. way to be a bunch of jerks. Just because she is young, and promiscuous, and probably minimally educated is even more a reason to be helpful and sensitive to her inquiry.

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Answered by a member - Dec. 6, 2012 1:24am
Wow Why would you even consider asking a question like that on this site.. U should be a shame of your self.. Sorry to say but that is so wrong in so many ways.. I hope the best for you and your baby and that you find out soon..

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Answered by a member - Dec. 5, 2012 10:38pm
Well I hope you find out. all I can think is that poor baby.

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Answered by Maybebaby - Dec. 5, 2012 10:34pm
U prob won't know till it's born and u can get a paternity test, it's the only way to be sure

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