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Q: Is ok for your husband to watch porn by him self?

Explain why or why not?? I need other persons opinions

This question was asked Mar. 3, 2013 3:42am
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Answered by madijoh - Mar. 4, 2013 11:31pm
Nope. I wouldn't put up with it. Makes me feel like I'm not good enough. Granted my significant other doesn't watch porn, I had an ex that did constantly. I hated it.

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Answered by Rockabump - Mar. 4, 2013 7:20pm
I think its completely normal. I'm not trying to be mean.....however a lot of women have insecurities with this issue. If your man is nigh next room.....go join him! You might like it and realize that it's not as bad as you think. It's completely normal. Your man did it before he met you.....and he still wanted you. Men and women have if different sex drives and watching porn ones not mean that he/ she isn't interested in you or doesn't want you. The more you fight it...,.the harder it will be on your relationship. Just a Thought!

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Answered by edwina2021 - Mar. 4, 2013 4:19pm
Ummm NO! that is wrong. Its you or nothing. There are other ways to relax. Go hang out with friends or something. My x did that. I hated being in the next room knowning he was having pleasuring himself. Theres other ways then porn.

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Answered by a member - Mar. 4, 2013 6:02am
Thank you ladies!! I needed to hear all this. My husband say he does it cause guys get horny alot more then woman and he needs to let of the steam. He doesn't think or want to have sex with those whores. I'm really ok with it, it just bothers me sometimes. Our sex life is great!!

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Answered by maggie22 - Mar. 4, 2013 1:31am
I am not overly happy that my husband watches porn but i think its a very normal thing for guys to do. Like the other ladies said as long as your sex life isnt suffering and your not being replaced by the porn i think its very normal.

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Answered by loveinme - Mar. 3, 2013 11:46pm
Totally ok. I used to do it all the time before I got pregnant, but now my sex drive is low, so I do not need sex at all. I do not think you should take it personally, he watches it because he wants to. It does not mean that he is not attracted to you.

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Answered by nesssicle - Mar. 3, 2013 9:36pm
It used to really bother me when my husband did it, but now i don't really care. Especially now that im pregnant. Our libidos are different and i cant expect him to go around sexually frustrated all the time because im not "in the mood" as much as he is. There are worse alternatives out there!

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Answered by a member - Mar. 3, 2013 8:19pm
As other members have said, it is fine and normal unless it is clearly replacing your sex life. I watch porn by myself all the time, and we still have a good sex life.

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Answered by kCharleneS - Mar. 3, 2013 5:50pm
I personally do not like it when he watches porn alone. It makes me feel like he thinks about those girls more than me and would rather have sex with those girls over me. We've had an issue where I'd catch him (having downloaded it onto his laptop or it being in the search bar) and he always denies it was him but with him being the only person besides me and our 4 year old, it's kinda obvious. Now if we watch it together, that's a different story because we can do what they're doing and I feel like it's me he's thinking about and not them.

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Answered by TheMrs0212 - Mar. 3, 2013 5:32pm
I don't have a problem with it at all. Actually, I've never flat out asked my husband if he watches it, but just assumed that he does. I'm okay with it because our sex life is still incredible. Also, my husband is smart enough to know and understand the difference between the girls he's watching on the screen who are getting paid to perform acts that are often uncomfortable and/or aren't even pleasurable, and me - his wife who he loves and wants to please.

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