Answered by lucyblue - Apr. 27, 2013 10:08pm
I am 32 weeks pregnant with my first and I feel like this sometimes too. Don't worry it is very normal to be worried about it...it's a scary thing to become a mom for the first time! I started reading the book "What To Expect The First Year" and it is making me feel a lot more prepared. I would definitely recommend reading it !
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Answered by Mom2be87 - Apr. 27, 2013 8:22pm
thank u all so much for ur responses!! I will sure come back here and read them everytime i panic! :) they are so encouraging :D
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Answered by hopefullll - Apr. 26, 2013 10:35pm
I felt the same way completely. I had zero baby experience and really wasn't a baby person(and still isn't, except for my own teehee). I think I was a little different than the other ladies on here though. Even though we planned him (now 3 years old) it was anything but natural for me. My husband changed the first 10 diapers and gave him his first bath and I was scared stupid to hold him. The good news is that it got easier fairly quickly but I read a lot of books and asked my midwife a ton of questions which helped big time. It's different for everyone hon, you may get it right off the bat or it may take some time to adjust to motherhood. Either way, it's the greatest feeling to be a mom so don't sweat it:)
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Answered by kelsamagoo - Apr. 26, 2013 8:07pm
I'm 28 weeks and feeling the same way on some days. I just can't believe I'm going to be responsible for my little girl--that she's going to be dependent on me for so much. It's overwhelming! Then I remember the Lord provides for every need. It's a huge comfort to know my husband and I don't have to do it alone.
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Answered by mum212 - Apr. 26, 2013 3:50pm
hi hun i havent read the above comments but i will say that it all come natural and if there is anything you are worried about you have us and your mum should be able to help with advice i know your first is scary but honest you will get in to such a routine you can do it with your eyes closed xx
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Answered by Razzle_ - Apr. 26, 2013 10:23am
As others have said, it will come naturally to you when your baby is born. The first few weeks are usually a little crazy whilst you get used to each other and settle into usual patterns. I actually think its good to have as much help around the house as possible so you can relax and cuddle your baby. One of the best things i have ever been advised was "At newborn everything is just a phase" - in other words don't stress about getting into 'bad habits' ie baby always sleeping with you. I-am-pregnant.com is fab for advice/chat/information x
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Answered by Tottie36 - Apr. 26, 2013 6:57am
You will be he best mum you can,we aren't born natural mothers it just comes to us over time, don't be afraid to ask for help if you are unsure
Relax and enjoy and take a deep sniff of babies head every day it's the most divine smell ever xx
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Answered by Emma78 - Apr. 26, 2013 1:13am
I wasn't nervous until I was sitting in the wheel chair on the way out of hospital. I started panicking! It comes naturally you figure things out. don't be afraid to call family and friends and ask for advice if you need it. I called my sister constantly in the beginning.
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Answered by nikkiblueeyes - Apr. 25, 2013 9:36pm
Ahh dont worry these feelings are normal hun, when your baby comes it will all just come naturally to you! Dont worry you will be fine :) x
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