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Asked by pheobe412

Q: I want to hide what I am facing, but how?

Hi there guys, how are you. I hope you all are doing okay and I wish you find my post at your best. I am finished now. My life is over. When I look at myself now a days it seems like life never did justice with me. Why me. Why all the time just me. I am really sorry that I got little emotional. Only option that is left for me is surrogacy. I want to keep it a secret. I don't want anyone to know about this. I am really sorry for this but this is the way it is. Please help me how could It's possible. I am related to show business so I have to keep it secret. It's already very complicated I don't want to make it more. Please help.

This question was asked Feb. 4, 2018 11:17am
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by CharlotteMick - Jul. 11, 2018 5:34pm
Hi there. I am so sorry to hear you are going through turbulence. Life is a see saw. Just when you think you are on top you get instantly to the bottom But please remember there is a top after that bottom again. So whatever you are facing be strong. And if you want to go for surrogacy, it might be helpful in the long term if you do it openly. Embrace yourself and own you choices bravely. Your baby if and when you get one will be proud of you. I opted for surrogacy myself. But a free advice is that if you decide to go down this path, the in order to avoid further heartache please do proper research before hand. i was nearly scammed by lotus clinic in the process. I wouldnt recommend that non serious and no professional team to anyone.

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Answered by Hayleh - Jul. 7, 2018 2:33pm
Hey Pheobe! May your heart and soul find comfort. How are you doing now? I am really sad to hear about your loss. But try to stay positive, you can make it through. Gather your hope and courage for the future. Life is a great blessing than any of others. If you are alive then you can make it through anything. Just stay positive. There is the option of surrogacy you can opt. Don't stress out and take your decision with the cold mind. You are not alone here, I am with you. I also experienced many miscarriages and conceived my baby through IVF. I know a clinic in Europe they'll provide you with all your needs. They also have surrogate mothers too. I am always here for you. Keep me updated about your condition dear. Take care of yourself.

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Answered by Hayleh - Jul. 7, 2018 2:32pm
Hey Pheobe! May your heart and soul find comfort. How are you doing now? I am really sad to hear about your loss. But try to stay positive, you can make it through. Gather your hope and courage for the future. Life is a great blessing than any of others. If you are alive then you can make it through anything. Just stay positive. There is the option of surrogacy you can opt. Don't stress out and take your decision with the cold mind. You are not alone here, I am with you. I also experienced many miscarriages and conceived my baby through IVF. I know a clinic in Europe they'll provide you with all your needs. They also have surrogate mothers too. I am always here for you. Keep me updated about your condition dear. Take care of yourself.

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Answered by alicee - Jul. 7, 2018 8:11am
Hey Pheobe! May your heart and soul find comfort. How are you doing now? I am really sad to hear about your loss. But try to stay positive, you can make it through. Life is a great blessing than any of others. If you are alive then you can make it through anything. Just stay positive. There is the option of surrogacy you can opt. Don't stress out an think with the cold mind. You are not alone here, I am with you. I also experienced many miscarriages and conceived my baby through IVF. I know a clinic in Europe they'll provide you with all your needs. They also have surrogate mothers too. I am always here for you. Keep me updated about your condition dear. Take care of yourself.

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Answered by Olivia_1990 - Jun. 26, 2018 7:34pm
Hey Phoebe! It is very sad to see you so heart-broken. Do not give up so soon Sweetie. It is a part of life and there are many women going through miscarriages and infertility. I myself am an infertility victim. It is a very emotional experience but one must stand strong to face such problems. Never lose hope or never stop believing in yourself. Consult doctors and ask for their suggestions. I am suffering from hysterectomy and I am also looking forward to going for surrogacy. No feeling can be better than completing your family. So do try other options and do not feel embarrassed. I hope you stay strong in such times. You can always use these forums for further help. We are just a text away from you! Good luck and take care!

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Answered by tressalee - Jun. 22, 2018 2:16pm
Hello. hope you are good? I am glad to know that you are planning surrogacy. Go for it. Your doctor took care of your privacy and everything. Don't worry. your business will be not affected. One day you will have your own child. good luck and take care.

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Answered by tressalee - Jun. 22, 2018 2:14pm
Hello. hope you are good? I am glad to know that you are planning surrogacy. Go for it. Your doctor took care of your privacy and everything. Don't worry. your business will be not affected. One day you will have your own child. good luck and take care.

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Answered by jennyjoe - Mar. 23, 2018 5:00pm
Hi there! I'm sorry you're going through this. Please remember you're not alone. You have so many with you, if not your friends then us over here. That's the good thing about these forums. Also, you're not the only one going through this. Surrogacy is a great option for you. The clinic I went to for mine was very supportive and nice. They offer discretion too. That'll be great in your field. Wishing you all the best. Go for it!

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Answered by Akane966 - Mar. 21, 2018 12:04pm
Theres nothing to hide in it.Why you are hiding it?
Its the part of life.I am from Japan.I am also infertile.
We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic.We didn't found a good clinic in Europe.We moved to Ukraine than.In Ukraine we found a clinic.It has many good reputation.As i am sharing my direct experience with you all.We found a good surrogate.Now she is pregnant with our two daughters.Soon we will have two daughters.
I guess you should also go for surrogacy.

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Answered by pheobe412 - Mar. 19, 2018 3:23pm
Hi Ella, I am glad you answered. It's really not good for me. I tried very much. It's not easy for me to calm down. I am trying my best. I don't know what else I should do. Just thinking about leaving everything. I know nothing is going to happen for me. I am so much depressed now.

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