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Wanting and not wanting to be pregnant.....
By cmere84 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 1:02pm - 484 views - 7 comments


I am completely happy with life at the moment..... My baby girl is rolling over, and cooing, and smiling for her mommy everyday! I love this little girl morel than life.... We plan on starting to try again in June possibly. I am so fearful that it is going to take a long time to fall pregnant again, but I don't want to be pregnant right now. So nits this big question, should I start ntnp now, and take the chance of falling pregnant soon, or should I just stick with the plan and wait till later in the summer???? Part of me just wants to go with it, and the other part of me doesn't want another winter baby! Lol

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	Comment from MalPal85 » Posted Apr. 30, 2018 7:57am If it were me, I would wait and let my body get back to "normal." I'm not saying wait as long as I am though, haha. My first (boy) turned 2 last December and we're just thinking about #2 and possibly trying in September. Do whatever your feel comfortable with but also, in my opinion, give your body some time to rejuvenate, lol
	Comment from WaitingwithHope » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 7:20pm My husband and I weren’t being careful 6 months after my son was born and I got pregnant right away even though the first time it took us almost 3 years and it was shocking and unexpected and not entirely welcome and then we suffered a loss which was hard so in my opinion wait to NTNP until you are super ready for another because chances are it won’t take very long at all and it’s better to be prepared!
	Comment from Angela18 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 6:45pm And I hope I don’t seem like I’m attacking, just my two cents and inquiring. And really, the ntnp approach will be waaayyy more enjoyable in the bedroom so go and have fun just be ready for any possibilities:)
	Comment from RPope84 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 5:41pm I'd give it till June like you'd planned. That way your body has had a little more time to heal, and I really don't think its going to be as hard this time around for you to get pregnant. Either way, 2 months isn't going to make that big of a difference. :)
	Comment from babylove14 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 3:51pm I agree with Angela18. Unless you okay with the idea of falling pregnant now, I would keep preventing. I know a woman who wasn't preventing after her twins were born since her first two pregnancies were difficult to conceive. She got pregnant immediately and gave birth to another baby when her twins were 11 months old.
	Comment from cmere84 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 3:06pm We have just been using condoms. Just thinking about not really focusing on ovulation and timing sex, but just making love without any prevention, but just seeing what happens. It's crazee, but it took 4 years and I hope it will just happen when we want this time.
	Comment from Angela18 » Posted Apr. 25, 2018 2:40pm Ok, don’t bite my head off, just I never understood the ntnp....is that where you fully let him do his thing, but not taking meds, etc to get pregnant? Or what’s the definition? If you aren’t ready, then don’t do what may cause a baby....here’s how I see it, if you are fully unprotected how is it going to better your odds for when you are ready unless you are ready now, get what I’m saying? Our ntnp is pulling out, lol, cause he looks at me and I’m pregnant. So here’s how I see it....your body has been through pregnancy so you may be surprised at how quick it happens the next time because our bodies sometimes seem to “remember”. If you aren’t ready I’d use some sort of method to not get pregnant because if you are ntnp now it won’t help you for June, it’ll help you Now, lol. Either way you go, I hope it happens fast for you. GL