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BabyBiggles's Pregnancy

My Due Date: February 13, 2022
I am 6 weeks and 1 day pregnant » 237 days to go
Age: 33 years old

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I'm Delighted But...
By BabyBiggles » Posted 1 week ago - 22 views - 0 comments

...I don't think DH will be. I don't know how to tell him. He was very clear about being done with three children, he struggled to bond with them as babies although he loves them so much now, but the baby stage was really hard for him and he says he just couldn't face it again. I was desperate for a fourth but he just couldn't get on board so I've been taking the mini pill until getting the coil fitted next week, and DH is on a waiting list for vasectomy. Except that now I'm pregnant anyway! I'm over the moon, I'm so excited but at the same time I'm scared. I worry how DH will react when I tell him, I worry how he will cope with the pregnancy and the newborn stage (fingers crossed we get that far, early days yet). I worry how I can support him when our feelings about it are so different. I know I didn't react well when I was upset about not having more and he tried to be supportive, because he didn't understand. I worry he is going to ruin the experience of carrying this beautiful miracle and I want to enjoy every second for the last time. I don't know what to do. But I'm praying with every fibre of my being that this amazing wee bean sticks tight in there!!!

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