Answered by a member - Jun. 11, 2012 10:37pm
The beginning of this is exactly how my husband and I got together. My husband, before we ever met, had slept with 168 women all one night stands. Let alone he was always lying and that sort of thing. We have been married for almost 2 years now and I still get weary. He understands that I get upset about other women talking to him. While he lets me check his phone occasionally, I leave his emails alone. You got to let him have his privacy too or else its going to cause alot more problems then what you already have. Believe me when I say we had alot of problems during my first pregnancy because it was during the summer (all the girls in almost nothing bothered the hell out of me). Finally we talked things through and managed to work things out to benefit us both. We rarely fight over things like that anymore and Im glad. Our marriage is better. But let him have some privacy and just talk to him. I hope this helped out a little.
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Answered by maggie22 - Jun. 14, 2012 6:37am
i think people never truely change. If he has passwords on things and you dont know them and he wont tell you to me that means he has something to hide, otherwise he wouldnt care and get so defensive..
If you are in a relationship everything should be open there should be nothing to hide. i check my husbands phone and email and facebook whenever i feel like it and he does not have the slightest problem with it. I know his passwords for everything. And likewise he know all my passwords.
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Answered by a member - Jun. 11, 2012 10:48pm
I in no way think he is having a physical relationship but I think he IS flirting etc and this he would NOT tolerate from me. I told him to fess up & if that's the way he wants our marriage to be as long as I can play by the rules he set I am good. I told him that ANYTHING he could do I could match EASILY!
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Answered by SugarBearBaez - Jun. 11, 2012 10:38pm
He got saved a couple months after we started our relationship. He stopped drinking smoking etc. I have seen alot of changes but he is also VERY secretive on a general level. And I agree if he hadnothing to hide there would be no need to hide his email account. I do not think he is seing anyone else but I DO think he is communicating with other women via email and perhaps text messages. He said once it was a cousin & I said okay forgive me but that's what every man says and I am not buying it. I am sick & tired of feeling on edge. He says it hurts him I do not trust him but I tell him YOUR behaviors cause the breach. I have GREAT intuition & I think I am right and at the leasthe is having inappropriate conversations so I am putting a keylogger stealth spyware on his computer & minbe when he goes to work & I am going to nip this is the bud. He KNOWS I will leave PERIOD if he is lying as he knows I was cheated on and lied to in the past. If I canot trust you I just do
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