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Asked by wotacutey

Q: Anyone doing it alone?

I recently convinced myself me & my bf were splittin up but I wanted to pay off his credit card before I told him so that he wasnâ??t left in debt. After a very down day I slept wiv my ex, father to my 4 year old daughter. I then found on this week that I am pregnant & although I suspect it may be my exs, there is still a small chance that it is my bfâ??s. I have told him, & he wants it to be his as he thinks we can make it work. But my ex also really wants it to be his & wants to give it another go. It would b nice to b a proper family with him & our daughter but I feel so guilty 2wards my bf. I donâ??t know what 2 do for the best. I am terrified of dealin with a 5 (by then) year old & a new baby, while holding down a full time job. I dunno if I could afford my house on maternity pay either. Ive decided that I am going to get a non invasive pre-natal paternity test but I cant do that for another 7 weeks & im sure this stress isnt good!!

This question was asked Jul. 4, 2012 1:51pm
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Answered by wotacutey - Jul. 4, 2012 9:04pm
I have mu ex husband in tears telling me he wants it to be his and that he wants me back. Then my bf, who I live with has his heart set on it being his. It kills me that this baby is gonna hurt someone so much before its even born.

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Answered by a member - Jul. 5, 2012 1:35pm
sounds like u want ur ex :) dont worry,not passing judgement because i am in a similar situation

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Answered by Razzle_ - Jul. 5, 2012 5:14pm
Sounds like your ex has had plenty of opportunity to step up...! Anyway don't beat yourself up about what's happened, you have been honest and trying to fix it - that's the main thing! Also just a little thing on who the dad might be, sperm can hang around before the egg is released. I had sex five days before i ovulated - so maybe you just never know what can happen!


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Answered by Brittany0915 - Jul. 4, 2012 2:16pm
when did you miss your period ? count back about 2 weeks from that, (give or take) and who ever you were sleeping with at that time would be the father. it sounds to be like it would be your boyfriends, not the father to your other son, but only you can figure it out. it may be easier then getting the paternity test done, which is probley expensive
unless you were sleeping with them both within a couple days then you may be able to figure it out. as far as who you want to be with... thats all your decision. theres a reason it didnt work out with both of them dont forget. good luck to yoU!

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