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Q: Mine and DH's relationship just not the same anymore. NEED ADVICE!

Me and DH have almost always had a good relationship and after we found out I as pregnant we were thrilled, but I'm now almost 16 weeks and things aren't the same anymore, probably not since 12 weeks. Maybe it's the hormones taking over but it just doesn't seem like he wants to be around me anymore. We used to be intimate with eachother fairly often and now I'm lucky if it's once every couple of weeks, and that's only because I practically force myself on him. It's not even enjoyable anymore cause I don't feel like he wants it. He says he's just tired from work but he's not working anymore than he has before. I'm tired too, but I still have the energy to love him. It just really hurts and I don't know what to think of it. It's like he's a different person, he's not even playful anymore. I don't know what to anymore, I'm literally crying every night thinking I'm in bed with someone who doesn't want me there... Has anyone else had this problem with their significant other?

This question was asked Dec. 29, 2012 6:47am
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:52pm
Sorry I had some difficulties trying to submit my answer:/ didn't mean to comment that many times lol

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Answered by Carenda1219 - Jan. 5, 2013 5:20pm
My DH is very loving as well as supportive, we both wanted our little one so badly and we are both very excited now that we are expecting. To be honest we have not had any issues and he had not changed toward me. If anything I was the scared one, I told him that we could not do anything until we got the go ahead from my doc. I wanted to make sure it was safe and all, this is my first pregnancy. Now when we do anything he is always so gentle with me, always asks if I am ok or if I feel to much pressure or anything like that. He is not scared or worried at all, just always makes sure I feel ok.

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