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Asked by n-larock

Q: How to handle this situation...

My fiance and I are due in April and our baby-shower is this Sunday. I am trying my hardest to get his family involved as well since the baby isn't actually blood-related to them... but they just seem so unintrested. A couple months behind me is my fiance's older-brother's biological child (they are due in July I believe) with his girlfriend. They seem to be getting a loooot of attention from his family. For instance, his mother (my soon-to-be mother-in-law) is throwing her shower. Now, that being said, I sent out invites over a month ago to my shower and hand-delivered his older siblings thier invites as well as his mother's invite. Everyone plans to take a day off for his brother's shower, but not one of his family members will be attending our shower due to "work"... it kind of bugs me a lot... and I can tell it hurts my fiance... How would you handle this situation???

This question was asked Feb. 14, 2013 2:57am
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by n-larock - Feb. 14, 2013 5:01am
umm no. I wish. My fiance and I are the parents of our son but the bio-father is not my fiance. It's a long story that I'm sure would out-rage some people on here... but it was our choice in the end so.

Sorry. I get kind of defensive with the whole biology thing because my fiance is the father in our eyes but we both are well aware that he didn't contribute the sperm to our son.

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Answered by a member - Feb. 14, 2013 4:04am
Wait, I don't think I'm really understanding this.. You and ur fiancé are having a baby but his family is not blood related to the baby? Sorry just want to make sure I'm understanding it right before I answer and I'm sure other people are wondering too

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