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Asked by Nicolelynn1733

Q: my ex fiancee wants me to give the baby up but i dont advice?

im 17 my fiancee left me bc we found out im pregnant hes 18 and we have been together for over a year. he wants to give the baby up for adoption but i just dont know if i could do that. i already feel like i have a connection with my child. i know its defferent for the dads, but what should i say? i told him id think about it but i just know im my heart i cant do it. to make things worse hes already talking to other girls after a few days of us being apart. i feel like i should just block him out of my life completely does anyone have advice or has this happened to anyone else?

This question was asked Feb. 24, 2013 1:14pm
Category: Newly Pregnant

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Answered by Nicolelynn1733 - Feb. 24, 2013 2:23pm
my family has been very supportive. well most of them. Im lucky for that, even ty's family is supportive but him. one he will realize how much hes messed up and he will come back but for the sake of my child i cant let him do that.

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Answered by stephpan - Feb. 24, 2013 1:49pm
Remember - it takes two to make a baby. Once the baby exists - he has to pay child support, etc. It just the way things are. If you don't want to give up the baby for adoption - then no one can force you to. You have to do what you think is right for your baby and yourself. I'd also recommend talking to a counselor or a family member about your options. Luckily you have 9 months to get ready!

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Answered by Nicolelynn1733 - Feb. 24, 2013 1:40pm
thats at i had told him. im going to block his number today and yesterday i blocked him from facebook. i just feel bad because he is all like if i have to pay child support ill kill myself. i feel bad but i have to do what i have to do. thank you i wish you the best also!

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Answered by stacca - Feb. 24, 2013 1:28pm
He cannot force you to do anything that YOU dont want to do, it may be his baby but its yours too. If he decides to walk away then any decisions made about your childs life will be up to you. I think you should talk to someone about what you want and yes cut him out of your life for the time being for your own sanity. Dont do anything you may regret later... seriously think about what it is YOU want and whats best for you and the baby. Congrats and chin up xx

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