Questions & Answers

It doesn't bother me, but I've also been open to it since the beginning of the relationship. We also spend a lot of time separated because he is in the military. I'd rather him watch porn than do something worse when we are apart for 6 months. We have a great sex life when we are together, and incorporate it in sometimes. Keeps things fresh and entertaining.

I think its completely normal. I'm not trying to be mean.....however a lot of women have insecurities with this issue. If your man is nigh next room.....go join him! You might like it and realize that it's not as bad as you think. It's completely normal. Your man did it before he met you.....and he still wanted you. Men and women have if different sex drives and watching porn ones not mean that he/ she isn't interested in you or doesn't want you. The more you fight it...,.the harder it will be on your relationship. Just a Thought!

It used to really bother me when my husband did it, but now i don't really care. Especially now that im pregnant. Our libidos are different and i cant expect him to go around sexually frustrated all the time because im not "in the mood" as much as he is. There are worse alternatives out there!

I personally do not like it when he watches porn alone. It makes me feel like he thinks about those girls more than me and would rather have sex with those girls over me. We've had an issue where I'd catch him (having downloaded it onto his laptop or it being in the search bar) and he always denies it was him but with him being the only person besides me and our 4 year old, it's kinda obvious. Now if we watch it together, that's a different story because we can do what they're doing and I feel like it's me he's thinking about and not them.

My husband watches porn by himself sometimes and I watch porn by myself sometimes too. I don't see a problem with it as long as we are open about it and as long as our sex life isn't suffering... and I assure you it's not.