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Q: Have 11 month old, and pregnant? Boyfriend wants an abortion?!

Idk what to do.
My son is 11 months old, he'll be a year old, on the 21st, next month, and I'm pregnant with my second child.
My boyfriend and I have talked about it, and he think that an abortion is best, saying that we ain't got the money to care for a second child right now,, but don't abortions cost like alotta money?
I was on the pill with I got pregnant with my son, and also was on the pill when I got pregnant this time.
I always looked at it, that there is a reason God gave me my son, and there is a reason that God has given me my second child, but I can't seem to get my boyfriend to understand that.
He's only 22 and I'll be 20 on the 11th of march.
I have given up everything for my son, college, friends, going out and having fun, my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't given up much, I think hes just scared if we have this second child that he wont get to do nothing.
Help please, I really and lost on this one. = /

This question was asked Feb. 26, 2012 4:04pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by a member - Feb. 27, 2012 2:15pm
Abortions can be expensive but paying for a child the rest of your life is as well. And if you can't afford it the rest of us foot the bill. If you cannot afford the child I would consider adoption. I would not let a man influence you but I also wouldn't let the fact that he mentioned it make you get defensive and decide to keep the baby for yourself out of spite. I am not pro abortion or pro life. I am pro GOOD life. If you cannot provide a good life, then you should find someone who can. Everything does happen for a reason and I have had friends that have had abortions before their current kids and after. None of them regret it but it's not to say they will ever be happy that they had to make the decision. I think it's something YOU should think about logically. I don't want to sway you one way or the other as ONLY YOU truly know what's best for YOU and YOUR family! God bless, sending prayers your way!

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