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Asked by breezy612

Q: Worried about second missed miscarriage

I need hope... I had a missed miscarriage about 2 years ago. I saw the baby's heartbeat at 7w3d then went to the dr's at 12weeks and found out the baby had stopped growing at about 9 weeks. With that pregnancy I had no strong symptoms. My boobs grew a little but that was all. Now I am 11weeks today and I can't stop worrying that it will happen again. I had my first ultrasound at 9w2d and saw the heartbeat and the baby moving. Also this time I've been feeling more nauseated (but haven't vomited), tired, strong food adversions and smell. I just don't know if this is enough. Also worried that I haven't been throwing up. Sorry for the rant... I'm just scared. Me and DH want this so badly. Please comment.

This question was asked Nov. 28, 2012 6:09am
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by breezy612 - Nov. 28, 2012 4:27pm
Thanks. I'm sure I'll feel even better once I get past my next appointment in 2 weeks. Seeing the baby being ok at 9 weeks was very reassuring since technically I made it past where I did last time. I'm just worried when I go in they won't beable to dectect the heartbeat again. I'm trying to remind myself that this is a different pregnancy, definitely a different situation, and whole new expierience and that what happened last time doesn't effect this baby. We just gotta wait it out.

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Answered by selenagrace - Nov. 28, 2012 4:26pm
I have had two miscarriages. One in October of 2011 and one in February 2012. The second one I saw the heartbeat at 6 weeks 5days. But it was an irregular beat and the baby past soon after. My symptoms with both pregnancies were very mild. I got pregnant again in May of 2012 and had symptoms that were not much stronger but I could notice a slight difference. I worried about everything I don't think its possible not to. What I did is after 10 weeks bought a doppler and believe me I listened everyday! It took some time to find her though, she moved alot. It brought me relief knowing she was still there. When I could feel her moving I stopped using the doppler. I am now 32 weeks with a healthy baby girl! So there is always hope that it will all work out. It looked like I would never have a healthy baby but here she is. And my symptoms were very mild compared to my friends pregnancies. I think everyone is different when it comes to that. I hope the best for you and your pregnancy! :)

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Answered by kelsamagoo - Nov. 28, 2012 3:23pm
I know exactly how you feel! I have so few symptoms and worry that something has gone wrong! I still haven't had my first appointment yet, and had a very early miscarriage at 4 weeks with my last pregnancy. This is my second pregnancy and I'm a little nauseous, but nothing debilitating and never to the point where I could throw up. I just wish I knew everything was alright. Someone needs to invent the take-home sonogram/baby heart monitor :)

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Answered by Bexhartley21 - Nov. 28, 2012 9:24am
I no it's easier said than done, but try just to chill out! I no how you feel I had a missed misscarriage and found out at 12 weeks it stopped growing at 6 and its heartbreaking! I got pregnant again and I was questioning any symptoms I would or wouldn't have and when my boobs stopped hurting I freaked out! But even though I was sure it would happen again and was and still sometimes still scared I am 24 weeks pregnant and everything is fine! :) I tried to tell my self if it happened I can't stop it so I just relaxed abit! Hope you learn to relax and try enjoy being pregnant :) xx

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