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If I were you I would just tell coworker everyone is different when pregnant and smile at coworker everything is better with huney not vinager I am 18 weeks tomorrow you can look at my bump pics and I'm showing a lot this is my 2 baby remeber maybe she is jeliouse that your showing and she did not until 7 months I would just pour honey on her and she may start to stop I'm sorry your coworker is being that way to you though

Omg that is so cheeky, I would've told her to F off! stupid woman, it's not he business and she should not be commenting like that, ESP not in work place that can be construed as bullying in the workplace!

Don't listen to what she has to say, everyone is different, I'm freaking out here about what way I'm going to look when I get to the showing part, my auntie hasn't put a pound on and has a cute bump, I'm going to look huge and I know it. maybe your co worker is actually jealous that you will be going off on maternity and she's going to stuck there lol

Wow, what a B**** this woman is being to you. I had a similar experience at my job with my first pregnancy. One of my coworkers was constantly making comments about my weight and was even doing some name calling. She thought that she was being funny. I am not entirely sure if she even realized how incredibly rude and insensitive she was being. One afternoon, we were in the lobby of my work with several other coworkers and she started in on me again. I just totally lost it. I told her how rude she was being and asked her how would she like it if I started calling her big fat a**. I went on a rant about how people should not say inappropriate things to a pregnant woman, then I walked out of the lobby. She never said anything negative to me again, and my coworkers never brought up the incident. I think you have to put your foot down and let her know that you will not tolerate her comments. I am sure that you are absolutely beautiful, and I agree that she is probably just jealous.

Honey, I've gained 3 lbs and I'm only in my 7th week! Lol.
Sounds to me like she's jealous of something! I'd ask her what exactly she is trying to prove with her comments about how perfect she is? Then I'd probably tell her where to go.

That's what kills me. If you can't say it or won't say it to a person who isn't pregnant, why do people think it's ok to say it when you are pregnant? It's hard enough watching your weight climb without people making you feel bad about it! You have all inspired me to be more assertive next time and flat out tell her I find her comments rude and want them to stop. After that I feel like I have a good case to go to HR (we don't actually have an "HR" because we're so small but I'm close with the president so I guess I'll chat with him). I want to be able to say I did what I could to stop it first but it's really hard for me to tell someone I have to deal with every day that their behavior is inappropriate. It will be awkward for sure but you are all right-I don't deserve to be treated that way. I've done nothing wrong!

I would report her for harassment. What she's doing is not just being stupid, she's repeatedly making negative comments about your physical appearance, purposely. Most companies will not tolerate that kind of behavior because it opens them up to lawsuits. Don't let her get away with bullying you!

id think she is jelous.ignore her.people always used to say to me omg ure so small on my first 2 so much that i was worried and now on this twin preg its like jezz ure only 21 weeks ure bloody massive..people are dumb and think a pregnant woman is public prop and its there right to give there opinions..

Did u find a resolution 2 your problem? Has she stopped bothering u? How did you get her 2 stop? Would be intresting 2 hear how u dealt with the situation, all the best 2 u!

What the hell?! That woman sounds like a miserable b****! To me it seems like she envys your pregnancy & wants you to feel bad to make her twisted mind feel better. I would def file a harassment report on her. She is bothering you & you feel uncomfortable. If she says another rude comment I would say, "Hm, sounds like a personal problem, for you." & leave it at that. Goodluck xo

That's the great thing about being pregnant. If you flip out and scream at someone, everyone just chalks it up to hormones and vows to tread more carefully around you. lol But you sure get your point across....