Questions & Answers

Honestly don't focus your cocern on her. It needs to be more of you should be focusing on him and why he would even think to be cheating in the first place when y'all have a baby on the way. She is pregnant 50/50 chance the baby may be his if they actually had intercourse. There is so many ways to cheat on someone with someone esle without having sex. I had to deal with this with my boyfriend minus the cheating. It becomes very annoying after awhile. Both girls liked everything my boyfriend posted and I told him it had to stop and that he had to say something about it. He needs to man up and say something to her about it. Facebook ruins so many relationships because of other people. Only if she wanted to be with him knowing he has another way she would say the baby is his to see if he would leave you.Don't let him fall for that without proof.

Maybe I'm a little different in how i think but I wouldn't be worrying about the other woman or weather or not she is or isn't pregnant with your BFS child. A DNA test will reveal that if she does ever give birth. I'd be more concerned about my BF still being my BF or not and figure out what I need to do to make sure my child is taken care of if he feels the need to wonder off again. And yes I do believe a woman would keep it from the man if the relationship is actually over and they want to cut ties completely. I hope for the babies sake you can work this all out.

Honestly, I don't know what type of woman she is but from the sounds of it, she would tell him if she was to try to "keep" him. Maybe to see if he wanted to be with her instead. But, since she didn't, that is weird. I don't think you will ever get over it completely. There was a trust broken. Eventually your hurt will lessen and you may start to trust him again with certain things. But, after this, I don't think you will ever blindly trust him or not drive yourself crazy with your thoughts. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I was upset when I found out my husband was looking at porn and hiding it when I was pregnant with my son, I couldn't imagine this. My advice would be to be completely honest with him and tell him how you feel and exactly how hurt you are. Also, be honest with yourself. Don't put yourself through anything that would make you unhappy in general in the end. Good luck, I hope you find a way to cope with this. You will make it through.