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Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in October last year, is he worth following or should i give up?

On the new year he was the first person to call me and tell me how much he loved me and wanted the best things for us and our future. We were always spending weekends together, even after work I would go and spend time with him at his place. At some time in Feb we started to have some arguments, things became a little bitter until one day he called and told me he no longer loved me. At that moment I suspected I was pregnant, i asked him to come and do pregnancy test with me. We did it and it was positive, he held me up with excitement, telling me how happy he was that he was going to be a father again, he took me to a Dr and we found out i was two months pregnant. As from then he was calling daily.
A week later he called me telling me he is tired of lying and pretending, he no longer loves me. I suggested we meet and talk not discuss it over a call he said no. He started dropping my calls, ignoring my texts. I went to his place and found him with another girl, he went back to his ex.

This question was asked Mar. 18, 2015 7:20am
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Answered by scoobyfanatic56 - Mar. 20, 2015 3:43pm
I agree with MissNat28. Any man who behaves like that isn't worth your or your child's time. I also wanted to add to make sure that you get that child support. You might be able to do it all on your own, but this money is for your child. You could start a college fund with it or be able to buy him/her a car when they are ready. Every little bit helps. He shouldn't get out of the responsibility of making a child.

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Answered by MissNat28 - Mar. 18, 2015 7:44am
Unfortunately hun I think he has made his decision. As hard as it is sometimes it's better to let go. You are pregnant and assuming you want to have this child your focus should be on yourself and this precious gift that you have been given. I won't lie bringing up a child on your own is hard however it makes you into the most amazing woman ever. Your baby like my son was who is now 8 will be the making of you and will be your strength through hard times. The unconditional love your child gives you will be like no other. You and your baby is more important than a man who likes to mess you about. I know it's harsh but it's true. I think you are amazing already to think of someone who clearly doesn't deserve you. I think now however it's time to think of yourself. Good luck hun x


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