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SICK OF ALL THE CRAP!
By GemGem » Posted Jan. 25, 2013 3:30am - 419 views - 4 comments

Facebook is Evil

I announced my baby news on facebook last monday which felt great (then) and then my cousin and his wife found they we 26 weeks pregnant and didn't even know about it! i am ecstatic for them! its so exciting 2 babies in the family this year!! Although my happiness came to an end today when I had a short blunt text message this morning. It was from my cousins wife. what happened is - last night I wrote a status about how i cant believe i have a little person inside me and that i will be 14 weeks tomorrow (now today) she comments about her being 27 weeks and how shes having another scan and joking about how they will probs tell her she's 37 weeks etc etc. Thats all well and good but I wanted the status for me. Its so stupid. so i deleted the status and reposted a fresh one with no comments. This morning i get a crappy message this morning about it and get accused of basically not being happy for them!!! accusing me of having a problem with them having a baby BEFORE me. Im not bothered if they have their baby before me. it made me cry that someone could think of me that way. My partner and I have had a argument because hes angry at her and taking it out on me so hes gone out and left me at home. so i deactivated Facebook and decided it is the devil!!!!!!!

Theres so many things going on at the moment. I just feel so down in the dumps. :(

Comments for this Journal Entry

	Comment from knicole27 » Posted Jan. 26, 2013 10:21am Something I learned during my pregnancy ?: two pregnant women don't get a long well like they used to before they were preggo. I learned this a few times when a couple friends of mine where preggo too but further along than me..dang hormones...but.. like others said..don't let it ruin your happiness! :)
	Comment from GemGem » Posted Jan. 25, 2013 2:45pm I did apologise to her if she felt offended and I just wanted a status for me. nope she still flew off the handle. its ok, im feeling better now its not so fresh. thanks for your advice :)
	Comment from Quartz3 » Posted Jan. 25, 2013 11:44am Can't you just explain to your cousin's wife that you just wanted that particular status to be about you and that you did not mean to insult her? It's really easy to get a wrong impression of what people do or say online - especially when it comes to pregnant women whose hormones are all over the place! Facebook is not worth arguing over... Just my two cents. I would be upset over that crappy message as well, to be sure.
	Comment from lannieprego » Posted Jan. 25, 2013 8:47am Dont let that bum you out...if they cant understand that your trying to have a you moment thats their problem...I closed FB long ago when me and hubby got together...Just enjoy this moment...do somethinf that makes you feel good...start pregnancy journal, a dear baby book tell the baby every up and down you have. Hope this helps!