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My Due Date: June 11, 2013I am postpartum » My due date was more than 2 weeks ago
Age: 36 years old
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Shouldn't I be the one with insecurities right now?
By preggo6506 » Posted Apr. 18, 2013 3:27pm - 629 views - 2 comments
It is completely opposite. I am the one being accused of cheating when I am 32 WEEKS PREGNANT!!! I am huge and waddle around but yet I am the one cheating. All I do is work, come home, cook, clean, get my other two kids ready for bed (bath, teeth, pjs,etc) then clean alittle more then I finally fall into bed around 9:30 at night. My day starts at 6:30 am and doesnt stop till 9:30. I am too exhausted to do anything. My weekends are spent doing laundry, grocery shopping, mopping, vacuuming, deep cleaning, playing with my kids, visiting family IF I have time. When the heck would I ever have time to see anyone else. It's so frustrating! I never ever say no when he asks to be intimate. I do it no matter how tired I am so it's not like he is going completely without and thinks I am getting it elsewhere. Where is his mind??? You would think I would be the one accusing him but I don't because I trust him and I don't think a relationship can work without trust, not for very long anyway. I just needed to vent. I don't let it bring me down (contrary to what this may look like). I stay happy for my kids and this baby, and I think about when she's born and just good things...He's not always bad, I don't know where this could be coming from. But it's more frequent recently and causing us to argue some, which I really don't like, want, or need right now. Anyways, I am done with my novel of complaining. Anyone else gone through th is???
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Shouldn't I be the one with insecurities right now?
By preggo6506 » Posted Apr. 18, 2013 3:27pm - 629 views - 2 comments
It is completely opposite. I am the one being accused of cheating when I am 32 WEEKS PREGNANT!!! I am huge and waddle around but yet I am the one cheating. All I do is work, come home, cook, clean, get my other two kids ready for bed (bath, teeth, pjs,etc) then clean alittle more then I finally fall into bed around 9:30 at night. My day starts at 6:30 am and doesnt stop till 9:30. I am too exhausted to do anything. My weekends are spent doing laundry, grocery shopping, mopping, vacuuming, deep cleaning, playing with my kids, visiting family IF I have time. When the heck would I ever have time to see anyone else. It's so frustrating! I never ever say no when he asks to be intimate. I do it no matter how tired I am so it's not like he is going completely without and thinks I am getting it elsewhere. Where is his mind??? You would think I would be the one accusing him but I don't because I trust him and I don't think a relationship can work without trust, not for very long anyway. I just needed to vent. I don't let it bring me down (contrary to what this may look like). I stay happy for my kids and this baby, and I think about when she's born and just good things...He's not always bad, I don't know where this could be coming from. But it's more frequent recently and causing us to argue some, which I really don't like, want, or need right now. Anyways, I am done with my novel of complaining. Anyone else gone through th is???
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 | Comment from preggo6506 » Posted Apr. 19, 2013 11:17am Lol..Thanks...This is my 3rd pregnancy, but my first two he wasn't really around for (they are his children though). We were just pretty young with my first two and couldnt get along long enough to make it through a whole pregnancy. lol. We are more mature now and not going to let small things or some arguing get between us. He is insecure when Im not pregnant, but I honestly thought while I was pregnant he would stop being that way, but no luck. Of course he dud stop for awhile. This is all just recent. Could have something to do with the stuff he takes to help him get bigger (he works out a lot). I swear that stuff plays with his head. I dnt know but I vented and I felt better. I know it will all stop one day. Thanks for commenting!!! |
 | Comment from Preciousbby4 » Posted Apr. 18, 2013 4:48pm You are probably one great looking pregnant women and he is insecure lol My hubby used to feel this way with my first pregnancy but he is not like that anymore. I bet your hubby knows your very attractive so take it as a compliment i guess cause the more you try to convince him the more he might fight i guess hehe good luck |
