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My Due Date: I suffered a pregnancy loss
Age: 34 years old

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I found out I'm pregnant today.
By LyssaBugg » Posted Oct. 18, 2012 6:20pm - 278 views - 3 comments

My period wasn't even due for more than a month, I'm on a stacked pill. But I just felt it, so I took a test. +

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I haven't told my boyfriend yet. We have a great relationship, but I know he doesn't want this yet.

I don't know what I'm going to do.

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Comment from nesssicle » Posted Oct. 24, 2012 7:52am
there is never a perfect time to have a baby. There will never be enough money, space, or time. Youll never have accomplished enough in your life before you thought youd have a kid...the timing will never be right. Things like this, you take them as they come. Its a miracle, especially when you were taking precautions such as birth control!

Good luck and wish you the best!

Comment from LyssaBugg » Posted Oct. 20, 2012 5:51pm
We're in our early twenties- I'm 22 and he's 23. He didn't seem upset, or angry, he kind of just looked at me for a minute. I told him I didn't want to talk about it just yet, I just want him to think things over. As far as options...

Keeping it- puts a lot of stress on the relationship (and stress in general). The relationship is new, and I need to think what would be best for the child. Money is tight, I should be done with school by then.

Abortion- I'm not sure I'd be able to do that emotionally at this time and feel okay. Maybe it would have at another time in my life, but not really right now. I haven't completely tossed it though.

Adoption- A lot to put myself through physically, emotionally giving it up would be hard. But it'd be nice knowing someone who really wants a child would have one. But I think it would be hard knowing I have a child somewhere out there.

Comment from diminished » Posted Oct. 18, 2012 10:25pm
far out thats gotta be a hard situation to be in. what realisticaly do you think your options will be? i hope your bf surprises you with happy response.


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