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My Due Date: October 30, 2013
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By edwina2021 » Posted May. 24, 2013 9:36am - 226 views - 4 comments

People really piss me off. Is it so wrong to get depressed when you find out the gender is a girl and your sceard she will be treated horrible! I was raised in a family of girls and it was horrible! bulling and yelling and all that crap. Im depressed because if Im having a girl I feel that I wont be able to protect her from that stuff. That I wont be a good mom. I expressed this and women just get so bitter at least you can get pregnant and dum shit. I was wanting to vent because I always though boys were strong enought to keep themselfs safe out of fights unlike girls. Is it really so wrong to be sceard about having a girl because you have seen so many bad things happen to girls then boy? Boys dont get druged and rapped or bullyed as bad as boys. So yes Bitter old women who are cought up in there life want everyone els to feel bad since they feel bad. Im just trying to find a way to where I can feel better about raising a girl. To feel like I can protect her.

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Comment from edwina2021 » Posted May. 26, 2013 7:26am

Comment from lucyblue » Posted May. 26, 2013 12:59am
I am also pregnant with a baby girl and am terrified to raise a daughter in this world. I feel like it's my duty to protect her from everything but it's impossible. You are not alone. But I try to concentrate on the positive and I just know that I will do the best I can to protect her. I think it is normal to have these fears, not just as the parent of a daughter but also as the parent of a son. The world is a dangerous place and it's naturally scary to bring a child into it. We can only do our best!

Comment from edwina2021 » Posted May. 24, 2013 11:35am
Thanks. Sometimes I get so sceard when thinking about everything that could go wrong and that people think Im crazy for thinking this so early.

Comment from Emma78 » Posted May. 24, 2013 10:38am
I worry about my daughter growing up. When I see stories of girls being bullied and harassed it's terrifying! I know the dumb things I did as a teenager and pray she is smarter then I was. I was lucky that I was hurt or raped. Especially now with all the technology it's scary what kids do without knowing the consequences. I pray daily that she stays safe that she will find good friends that encourage her to be a good person. do my best to teach her to be responsible and make good choices in life.

Your not alone in your fears! This time I'm having a boy and worry about bullying and fighting. My husband was always fighting when he was younger.

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