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If I tell myself I love him I won't do something I regret right?
By Amarylis13 » Posted Apr. 3, 2014 10:17pm - 263 views - 3 comments
My husband has officially fucked us over financially for the rest of the month, possibly until sometime in May. He has "anxiety" but won't get help and tries to say something is wrong when he has is manifest in a physical symptom. I officially think it is all load of shit so he doesn't have to work. He won't get help either just wants to play his video games. We got half a pay check because he missed 2 weeks of work for "anxiety". And now because the dr wouldn't fill out the form for physical disability because there was no physical disability his work is now threatening to take back the sick pay, which he was getting for calling in sick BEFORE his supervisor tried putting him on disability. So if they take the money back next pay we may or may not be able to make rent, eat, and pay the bills. Bills are already behind because I chose to make rent and eat rather than pay them. I am so mad at him right now. I might sell every single thing he owns for video games if they take the pay back, and if he won't do that threaten divorce. If he wants to have a fucking panic attack he can be reminded what they are like when you should be having one.
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If I tell myself I love him I won't do something I regret right?
By Amarylis13 » Posted Apr. 3, 2014 10:17pm - 263 views - 3 comments
My husband has officially fucked us over financially for the rest of the month, possibly until sometime in May. He has "anxiety" but won't get help and tries to say something is wrong when he has is manifest in a physical symptom. I officially think it is all load of shit so he doesn't have to work. He won't get help either just wants to play his video games. We got half a pay check because he missed 2 weeks of work for "anxiety". And now because the dr wouldn't fill out the form for physical disability because there was no physical disability his work is now threatening to take back the sick pay, which he was getting for calling in sick BEFORE his supervisor tried putting him on disability. So if they take the money back next pay we may or may not be able to make rent, eat, and pay the bills. Bills are already behind because I chose to make rent and eat rather than pay them. I am so mad at him right now. I might sell every single thing he owns for video games if they take the pay back, and if he won't do that threaten divorce. If he wants to have a fucking panic attack he can be reminded what they are like when you should be having one.
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 | Comment from Amarylis13 » Posted Apr. 4, 2014 9:45am He is on meds and takes them all the time. I have left him before for other issues. This anxiety thing seems to be the last major problem we have since it fucks things up so well. |
 | Comment from acrichton » Posted Apr. 4, 2014 8:23am This story sounds like my ex boyfriend to a T. It must be frustrating for you, Im sorry you have to deal with this being pregnant. What it ended up being was that he hated his job. He did not enjoy what he was doing and used the panic attacks as an excuse (although he did have them and had bad depression as well) to get out of work. My ex would play video games to avoid doing what he had to do. Sell his video games, its time for him to grow up. If he has that desperate for an escape he should take up exercising, It will improve his anxiety tremendously. Has he been to the doctor and is he on meds? |
 | Comment from Bammom » Posted Apr. 4, 2014 8:15am My husband suffers from panic attacks and has pretty bad anxiety issues, but NEVER has any attack taken him out of the game for 2 weeks. NEVER has he missed work for anxiety. The fact that you haven't sold the video games off already and told him that it is a very real possibility that you would leave him kinda baffles me. He needs to man up, learn some meditation techniques, and get back to work. I was in a very similar marriage immediately after graduating high school and I had to leave him. He put us in debt and didn't care that I was the only one working to support us while he sat on his ass and played video games. Put your foot down and see how he reacts. That will let you know what you need to do. I hope he sees the light! |
