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5+6/ 27 dpo/ Aug 22 2012 ---telling my mum
By smulan32 » Posted Aug. 22, 2012 6:41am - 264 views - 0 comments
We've decided not to tell until after we've seen that all is well at the doctors at the 12 week scan. My mum will go crazy! When she learnt I was pregnant the first time (ended in a MA) she was upset she didn't know basicly even before I did the test that comfirmed the pregnancy. But I think we have the right to keep this to ourselves for a while... (Don't we?) But I know she will get very upset, feeling left out. But I don't want to give her the news followed a little later by telling her I got another MC. I've just told her about that first MA I got, not the chemical pregnancies, and she's still really really worried that I will never have kids because I've "started to late" to have kids (I'm in my mid 20's if anyone wants to know). I can't deal with her worrying. I can worry enough on my own. So I really don't want to say anything until it's pretty safe to tell her (even if she will get upset, sad or angry). Hopefully though she will just get happy. I mean she've wanted grandkids for a while now and she has none yet. Hopefully she will forgive me...
My DH's parents are much more understanding. They will not be upset because they understand we have the right to keep this to ourselves. I wish my mum was more like that.
Update about me:
I have light spotting on and off, depending on if I have been walking or lifing or anything that's even remotely a bit like "exercise". But the bean still seems to stick. The spotting is really light(pink), does not gett heavier or continues day after day, and not followed by stabbing or any direct cramping.
I'm getting more and more symptoms every day (sore/tender breasts, nausea just before I eat and when I'm hungry, weepy, moody, gassy, pinches, sometimes dull cramps, etc). But doesn't really feel any diffrent from when I wasn't pregnant(except my weird symptoms), so sometimes I think that maybe I'm not, maybe I'm just imagening things, and then I look at the positive test and high temp and I think through my symptoms, and then think "yeah, I'm pregnant".
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5+6/ 27 dpo/ Aug 22 2012 ---telling my mum
By smulan32 » Posted Aug. 22, 2012 6:41am - 264 views - 0 comments
We've decided not to tell until after we've seen that all is well at the doctors at the 12 week scan. My mum will go crazy! When she learnt I was pregnant the first time (ended in a MA) she was upset she didn't know basicly even before I did the test that comfirmed the pregnancy. But I think we have the right to keep this to ourselves for a while... (Don't we?) But I know she will get very upset, feeling left out. But I don't want to give her the news followed a little later by telling her I got another MC. I've just told her about that first MA I got, not the chemical pregnancies, and she's still really really worried that I will never have kids because I've "started to late" to have kids (I'm in my mid 20's if anyone wants to know). I can't deal with her worrying. I can worry enough on my own. So I really don't want to say anything until it's pretty safe to tell her (even if she will get upset, sad or angry). Hopefully though she will just get happy. I mean she've wanted grandkids for a while now and she has none yet. Hopefully she will forgive me...
My DH's parents are much more understanding. They will not be upset because they understand we have the right to keep this to ourselves. I wish my mum was more like that.
Update about me:
I have light spotting on and off, depending on if I have been walking or lifing or anything that's even remotely a bit like "exercise". But the bean still seems to stick. The spotting is really light(pink), does not gett heavier or continues day after day, and not followed by stabbing or any direct cramping.
I'm getting more and more symptoms every day (sore/tender breasts, nausea just before I eat and when I'm hungry, weepy, moody, gassy, pinches, sometimes dull cramps, etc). But doesn't really feel any diffrent from when I wasn't pregnant(except my weird symptoms), so sometimes I think that maybe I'm not, maybe I'm just imagening things, and then I look at the positive test and high temp and I think through my symptoms, and then think "yeah, I'm pregnant".
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