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Leave and go back to Canada, your child can be a citizen then and will at least have health care coverage and a social net. Your husband is being emotionally abusive and threatening to take your child. Leave. Gather up what money you can and hop a bus, seriously.

Oh Hun, you need to get out now while you can. If he's doing this to you I can't imagine how he will be to your baby. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to find help before it's too late. Go to a womens shelter or go to the police. You can't live like that. He could hurt your baby or really hurt you. I hope you can find some safety. Get help.

I talked to my DH, he said that he was just saying those things so I would shape-up. What kind of man tells this to his pregnant wife? about 3 weeks ago he told me to have a threesome with another man and him. And I agreed to it. we were at someone elses place and after that he slapped me and ran away. He left me with a guy that I didn't know, I quickly walked out. I was crying and didn't know where I was or what to do. My Dh finaly found me walking on the street and told me to come in the car. And as stupid as I was, I got into the car. I felt like I betrayed him. I felt like it was my fault. After I got into the car, he punched me, slapped me, punched me in my stomache. I couldnt get out of the car either because he was driving so fast..the next day he saw a bruise on my face, by my eye and became all lovey dovey. I get nightmares because of that day. He brings it up in every fight we have...I'm just trapped. I'm sure after a while, I'm going to save money and just walk out on him...

You need to leave before you have that baby. As a mother you have to do whatever you can to protect your child. Go to a church or shelter they will help you and protect you, and if not the police. And these things he's telling you are just so he can control you and make you feel less than and afraid. If you can get evidence of the physical abuse, but if not just leave and know that your love for for your child will bring you strength and courage to make it through this.

*precious baby.

i think you are in a bad situation. that sounds awful, and its no way to be treated. no one deserves that. was he always this way? how long have you been together?? you need to be very careful, especially after you have the baby. this may not be the answer you want to hear, but you need to leave that man. he is showing some warning signs that he may become violent and thats not something for you to face while pregnant. if i were you, id put away some money asap, and call a friend of family member and tell them you need to get away. surely they dont turn you down. if they are too far away, i would suggest turning to a womens shelter until you can figure something else out. dont wait until the baby is born, leave now

Im sorry to hear that your partner is a complete arse, (sorry to be so blunt). Please, please do not stand for this sort of treatment, you and your previous baby deserve more than this. Do you have any friends close by, who you can talk to or stay with? There are organisations that can also help if you are on your own, and scared. This man is trying to control you with idle threats and seems to be getting a kick out of saying this hurtful stuff to you.

I know its very hard, but you must think about yourself and your baby, I dread to think what some people are capable of, and im quite concerned about your situation.

Us woman are much stronger than we let on, and I believe that you will rise above this and do what is best for you and baby. Sending you lots of hugs and strength. xx

omg! Pack your bags and go back to canada now!! And have your baby over there!! Dont tell him or anyone else until your gone.

Get out while you can. Come back to Canada, and raise the baby by yourself! You must have family/friends back here. No one needs an ass like that around, especially with a new baby around! You and your baby deserve better. Best of luck!

I don't think it is healthy or safe for you or your unborn baby to be in this situation. Do you have family you can be with in Canada or elsewhere? It sounds like you need to get out of there NOW! Especially if he is hitting and punching you. Don't stand for that!