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my DH has been calling me nasty names lately. I am 14 weeks pregnant. He tells me I'm a wh**e, a dy*e. He says he's going to send me back to my country (which is canada) after my baby is born. He says after my baby is born he is going to take him/her away and kick me out of the house. I feel so weak right now. I have no family/friends to go to...at the same time I don't want to leave him. I don't know what to do...I am very hurt, I've broken down. what am I going to do..

This question was asked Jul. 9, 2012 6:42pm
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by Kittyrugs - Jul. 9, 2012 7:17pm
Im sorry to hear that your partner is a complete arse, (sorry to be so blunt). Please, please do not stand for this sort of treatment, you and your previous baby deserve more than this. Do you have any friends close by, who you can talk to or stay with? There are organisations that can also help if you are on your own, and scared. This man is trying to control you with idle threats and seems to be getting a kick out of saying this hurtful stuff to you.

I know its very hard, but you must think about yourself and your baby, I dread to think what some people are capable of, and im quite concerned about your situation.

Us woman are much stronger than we let on, and I believe that you will rise above this and do what is best for you and baby. Sending you lots of hugs and strength. xx



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Answered by a member - Jul. 10, 2012 1:09am
Oh my god, not only did he assault you he assaulted his own child by punching you in the stomach. He is a pathetic human being and you need to think about your baby and leave him. Please please give your head a shake and step back for 2 minutes and look at the situation. If someone else asked this question how would you respond? Your baby is number 1 and staying with this horrible man is putting you and your child in danger. Leave now & do not be one of these stupid women who stay "because I love him" he does not love you. I'm sorry if this is harsh but this is a very bad situation you are in.

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Answered by a member - Jul. 9, 2012 8:15pm
Oh honey, get out now. I would even think about contacting the police and getting a restraining order. He has assalted you physically and mentally. He is capable of more if you don't get out now. You don't need to wait to save money. Go the the police and they will get you in contact with someone who will help you if you don't have anyone to turn to. Please, please get help now.

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Answered by a member - Jul. 13, 2012 2:47pm
You agreed to a threesome while pregnant? I don't understand that at all. Besides that fact, this is completely unhealthy and abusive and you need to leave now!!!

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