Questions & Answers

Im sorry to hear that your partner is a complete arse, (sorry to be so blunt). Please, please do not stand for this sort of treatment, you and your previous baby deserve more than this. Do you have any friends close by, who you can talk to or stay with? There are organisations that can also help if you are on your own, and scared. This man is trying to control you with idle threats and seems to be getting a kick out of saying this hurtful stuff to you.

I know its very hard, but you must think about yourself and your baby, I dread to think what some people are capable of, and im quite concerned about your situation.

Us woman are much stronger than we let on, and I believe that you will rise above this and do what is best for you and baby. Sending you lots of hugs and strength. xx

im very sorry to hear this hun you are definetly none of those things! your husband is just rotten scum for treating you that way. its not acceptable, especially if you are carrying his child. i know you dont want to leave him, but if hes going to treat you like this, imagine how he will be to your child. in my opinion you need to get out right away. if you have any family you can go stay with i would advise that, if not there are places you can go that can offer you support and protection from him. you deserve better. your child deserves better and i will keep you in my prayers

Leave and go back to Canada, your child can be a citizen then and will at least have health care coverage and a social net. Your husband is being emotionally abusive and threatening to take your child. Leave. Gather up what money you can and hop a bus, seriously.

i think you are in a bad situation. that sounds awful, and its no way to be treated. no one deserves that. was he always this way? how long have you been together?? you need to be very careful, especially after you have the baby. this may not be the answer you want to hear, but you need to leave that man. he is showing some warning signs that he may become violent and thats not something for you to face while pregnant. if i were you, id put away some money asap, and call a friend of family member and tell them you need to get away. surely they dont turn you down. if they are too far away, i would suggest turning to a womens shelter until you can figure something else out. dont wait until the baby is born, leave now