Questions & Answers

Leave and go back to Canada, your child can be a citizen then and will at least have health care coverage and a social net. Your husband is being emotionally abusive and threatening to take your child. Leave. Gather up what money you can and hop a bus, seriously.

Oh Hun, you need to get out now while you can. If he's doing this to you I can't imagine how he will be to your baby. I know it's easier said than done, but you need to find help before it's too late. Go to a womens shelter or go to the police. You can't live like that. He could hurt your baby or really hurt you. I hope you can find some safety. Get help.

I talked to my DH, he said that he was just saying those things so I would shape-up. What kind of man tells this to his pregnant wife? about 3 weeks ago he told me to have a threesome with another man and him. And I agreed to it. we were at someone elses place and after that he slapped me and ran away. He left me with a guy that I didn't know, I quickly walked out. I was crying and didn't know where I was or what to do. My Dh finaly found me walking on the street and told me to come in the car. And as stupid as I was, I got into the car. I felt like I betrayed him. I felt like it was my fault. After I got into the car, he punched me, slapped me, punched me in my stomache. I couldnt get out of the car either because he was driving so fast..the next day he saw a bruise on my face, by my eye and became all lovey dovey. I get nightmares because of that day. He brings it up in every fight we have...I'm just trapped. I'm sure after a while, I'm going to save money and just walk out on him...

im very sorry to hear this hun you are definetly none of those things! your husband is just rotten scum for treating you that way. its not acceptable, especially if you are carrying his child. i know you dont want to leave him, but if hes going to treat you like this, imagine how he will be to your child. in my opinion you need to get out right away. if you have any family you can go stay with i would advise that, if not there are places you can go that can offer you support and protection from him. you deserve better. your child deserves better and i will keep you in my prayers

You need to leave before you have that baby. As a mother you have to do whatever you can to protect your child. Go to a church or shelter they will help you and protect you, and if not the police. And these things he's telling you are just so he can control you and make you feel less than and afraid. If you can get evidence of the physical abuse, but if not just leave and know that your love for for your child will bring you strength and courage to make it through this.

*precious baby.

omg! Pack your bags and go back to canada now!! And have your baby over there!! Dont tell him or anyone else until your gone.

I don't think it is healthy or safe for you or your unborn baby to be in this situation. Do you have family you can be with in Canada or elsewhere? It sounds like you need to get out of there NOW! Especially if he is hitting and punching you. Don't stand for that!

i think you are in a bad situation. that sounds awful, and its no way to be treated. no one deserves that. was he always this way? how long have you been together?? you need to be very careful, especially after you have the baby. this may not be the answer you want to hear, but you need to leave that man. he is showing some warning signs that he may become violent and thats not something for you to face while pregnant. if i were you, id put away some money asap, and call a friend of family member and tell them you need to get away. surely they dont turn you down. if they are too far away, i would suggest turning to a womens shelter until you can figure something else out. dont wait until the baby is born, leave now

Get out while you can. Come back to Canada, and raise the baby by yourself! You must have family/friends back here. No one needs an ass like that around, especially with a new baby around! You and your baby deserve better. Best of luck!