Answered by tibby8 - Oct. 23, 2012 6:30pm
I agree with the previous answer. You don't need to get married right away. Have a long engagement if you like and see how things go with the pregnancy and when baby is here. If you still have doubts maybe talk about them.
148 out of 291 found this answer helpful
Thank you for contributing! Was this answer helpful? YesNo
Answered by Charlotte17 - Oct. 23, 2012 6:16pm
If it were me, I would go ahead and keep the engagement if you could see yourself marrying him, but I wouldn't make any wedding plans for a long time. I would want to see how he handles the pregnancy and the baby and make sure that we have a solid future together before moving ahead with any wedding plans. But just because you're engaged doesn't mean you have to set a date and commit to plans anytime soon. I wouldn't make any decisions during the pregnancy because it can be such a stressful (and hormonal) time. I would consider the engagement as a symbol that you guys are planning to stay together and be a family but you don't have to make the wedding official right away.
Congratulations on your pregnancy and engagement!
153 out of 302 found this answer helpful
Thank you for contributing! Was this answer helpful? YesNo
Community
Need Advice? Ask Your Question
