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Q: Mine and DH's relationship just not the same anymore. NEED ADVICE!

Me and DH have almost always had a good relationship and after we found out I as pregnant we were thrilled, but I'm now almost 16 weeks and things aren't the same anymore, probably not since 12 weeks. Maybe it's the hormones taking over but it just doesn't seem like he wants to be around me anymore. We used to be intimate with eachother fairly often and now I'm lucky if it's once every couple of weeks, and that's only because I practically force myself on him. It's not even enjoyable anymore cause I don't feel like he wants it. He says he's just tired from work but he's not working anymore than he has before. I'm tired too, but I still have the energy to love him. It just really hurts and I don't know what to think of it. It's like he's a different person, he's not even playful anymore. I don't know what to anymore, I'm literally crying every night thinking I'm in bed with someone who doesn't want me there... Has anyone else had this problem with their significant other?

This question was asked Dec. 29, 2012 6:47am
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by nesssicle - Dec. 29, 2012 2:20pm
I know with my DH he was scared to hurt me and didn't want to pressure me if I might be feeling ill. I had to reassre him a bunch of times he couldn't hurt me or the baby while we were intimate. You need to have a talk with him. I'm sure he's just worried

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Answered by maggie22 - Dec. 29, 2012 8:02am
The only thing you can do is tell him how your feeling.... pretty much everything you have just told us you need to tell him.

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