Answered by maggie22 - Dec. 29, 2012 8:02am
The only thing you can do is tell him how your feeling.... pretty much everything you have just told us you need to tell him.
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Answered by nesssicle - Dec. 29, 2012 2:20pm
I know with my DH he was scared to hurt me and didn't want to pressure me if I might be feeling ill. I had to reassre him a bunch of times he couldn't hurt me or the baby while we were intimate. You need to have a talk with him. I'm sure he's just worried
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:47pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by nwelch - Dec. 30, 2012 3:26am
It was the same for for me. I know exactly how you feel. My husband didnt want sex my whole pregnancy. I felt so disconnected from him. I had my baby 2 weeks ago and he told me it was because he didnt want to hurt the baby and he said it was just uncomfortable with my belly. Now I still have to wait another 4 weeks before we can do it again. I can't wait to have that connection back again. Since the baby he's been very loving and is so in love with our little girl. I know it's hard, but you will get through it. Try not to take it so personal. I did, but now I kinda understand why. Hang in there girl and congrats on your pregnancy.
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:49pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:49pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:49pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:49pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:46pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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Answered by BabyMoore13 - Dec. 29, 2012 3:49pm
I have been feeling like that also. I told him how I've been feeling (plenty of times) and that our relationship needs more affection. He wasn't trying to hear it at the time but he definitely got it and we have worked on it. Your DH may be worrying about some things and has a lot on his mind also. The best thing to do is just to let him know in a way that doesn't make him feel bad and that you want the best for your relationship. You also can find new hobbies to try so that you won't be worrying about him so much to keep you busy so that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you (cause they sure do notice when we're not thinking about them anymore lol)! I know exactly how you feel and it's the hormones too. Congrats on your pregnancy and hope I could help:)
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