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Q: I'm 31 weeks pregnant. My ex boyfriend JJ and I had sex in October.

My last period was November 15 a website told me my baby was concived November 29th. My ex wants a DNA test but I have no doubt in my mind that he isent the father, because me and my ex Dexter had sex a little bit after Christmas and we didnt do it for that long because I didnt feel comfortable so he stopped. By the way I was a month pregnant in December. My ex JJ never wire a confom and we had sex alot. Can somebody help me I keep praying that the DNA will prove he is the father but wanted somebody I didnt know to help me with this.

This question was asked Jun. 23, 2012 2:13am
Category: Relationships During Pregnancy

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Answered by a member - Jun. 23, 2012 2:57am
Thank you so much but at the end of November I really didnt have sex so i'm just confusrd.

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Answered by a member - Jun. 23, 2012 3:47pm
Ok I'm not sure if me and JJ had sex in the beginning of November because he was living with me but he moved and he left around the beginning of November I believe because he was still at my house after Halloween and towards the end of October we had sex. Dexter can't be the father because I didn't have sex with him till a few days after Christmas which I was already a month pregnant. We had sex for like 3 mins not that long because I didn't want to do it with him. When we was together I never had sex with him because I didn't know him that well. Me and JJ always had sex I just can't remember the last time we had sex according to him the last time we had sex was October I was birth control at the time and JJ never wore a condom. I didn't find out I was pregnant till March I took a pregnancy test and it said it was positive the next day my doctor told me I was 4 to 5 months pregnant. I never knew my period date until i went on some website and it told me my perioddate and ovulation date

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Answered by a member - Jun. 23, 2012 8:15pm
Not judging, but you should have mentioned that there were 5 father possibilities at the beginning of this thread instead of pretending like you didn't have any sex at the end of November...now it all makes a LOT more sense.

Anyway, It's probably NOT JJ since the last time you had sex with him was late October/beginning of November (and you DID have a period in November AFTER you had sex with JJ) so as much as you want it to be him, it doesn't sound like it is. It also doesn't sound like Dexter either because you said you didn't have sex with him until after Christmas. So, it's most likely either Malcolm or one of the 2 guys you had the threesome with. It you were tipsy/drunk and they were tipsy/drunk they might not have used the condoms correctly (and condoms aren't 100% anyway). I'd test those 3 first because the odds are that it's one of them. Good luck to you!

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