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Asked by pheobe412

Q: I want to hide what I am facing, but how?

Hi there guys, how are you. I hope you all are doing okay and I wish you find my post at your best. I am finished now. My life is over. When I look at myself now a days it seems like life never did justice with me. Why me. Why all the time just me. I am really sorry that I got little emotional. Only option that is left for me is surrogacy. I want to keep it a secret. I don't want anyone to know about this. I am really sorry for this but this is the way it is. Please help me how could It's possible. I am related to show business so I have to keep it secret. It's already very complicated I don't want to make it more. Please help.

This question was asked Feb. 4, 2018 11:17am
Category: Miscarriage & Loss

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Answered by sally28 - Mar. 13, 2018 9:37am
Hey, sweety! How are you? Well, I think you are just over thinking in this matter. Surrogacy is not a bad thing. You should not really hide this from anyone. Being infertile is a big problem itself. Why do you want to burden yourself by hiding it forever? There are so many good clinics. They will keep everything a secret. But the thing is that you should be brave enough to tell this to everyone. Hiding it from people is not the solution to this. If you have finally decided to choose this, then choose it bravely. I know it's hard. I understand that you are going through a lot of pain. But that does not mean that you should lose hope. Losing hope will make you stressed. Make sure to take proper care of yourself. And think wisely about your decision again. Good luck!

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Answered by Hayleh - Jul. 7, 2018 2:32pm
Hey Pheobe! May your heart and soul find comfort. How are you doing now? I am really sad to hear about your loss. But try to stay positive, you can make it through. Gather your hope and courage for the future. Life is a great blessing than any of others. If you are alive then you can make it through anything. Just stay positive. There is the option of surrogacy you can opt. Don't stress out and take your decision with the cold mind. You are not alone here, I am with you. I also experienced many miscarriages and conceived my baby through IVF. I know a clinic in Europe they'll provide you with all your needs. They also have surrogate mothers too. I am always here for you. Keep me updated about your condition dear. Take care of yourself.

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Answered by EllaJohn - Feb. 9, 2018 9:25am
Hey there. I am fine. Thanks for asking. How are you?
You are highly stressed. Stay calm my friend. It seems like you are giving up on life. Don't do that. Stay hopeful. Stay positive. Clam yourself down.
May I ask a question? What is the reason that you are only left with surrogacy? No doubts, surrogacy is a great deal in itself. People are having babies from it.
If you would have clearly mentioned more about the reasons it would have been easier to help you.
Wish you luck.
Be strong.
Stay blessed.
Xxx.

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Answered by jenifercox - Feb. 9, 2018 6:02am
Well you know what. We can't do anything but wait. Don't worry my friend. Something good is about t come towards you and you'll get it soon. don't worry about anything. Just try to be happy always. Everything will be fine soon. Just try to take care allot of yourself. May you get well soon. I think you are happy now. please try to be happy. Best of luck.

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Answered by RihanaSam - Mar. 12, 2018 4:49pm
ey, there I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss it must be extremely devastating.
However, you shouldn't be afraid to go for surrogacy as it is a rescue for so many women who are unable to conceive naturally. It is a great method as it allows one to be genetically linked with the baby and has a high rate of success as well. Being in the same boat I was lucky enough to find a clinic which is very inexpensive as compared to the clinic where I live. The clinic was doing the treatment legally and was also ensuring that everyone was following the legal framework. I was concerned about the health of the surrogates one of the reasons why I didn't opt for private surrogacy. However, was glad to find out that in this clinic they had a medical test and if one passed it then they were only eligible to be the surrogates. Once a surrogate was pregnant she had to visit the clinic daily for check-ups as well. This was honestly amazing as the clinic was so efficient. Please share your review.

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