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Asked by ktjones1

Q: Apparently I am the 1%.

Yesterday, 4.20.12, I went in for my 12 week appointment and ultrasound. As some of you may know, I was very worried and scared of having a missed miscarriage. I even bought a doppler to try and ease my mind.

Well my baby had no heart beat and had stopped ground at 10 weeks. I'm so angry and sad. I feel like my dh and I struggled to get pregnant and this is the second loss we have had.

We were so close. That is what breaks my heart so bad. We were almost out of the 1st trimester. I was supposed to go look gor baby furntiure today with my family. Instead, I'm here writing about the loss of my baby.

I have a d and c schedule for tuesday of next week. I just can't express what I am feeling and how confused I am.

I pray that all of you have a heatlhy pregnancy! I'll take any prayers you want to send my way, bc right now I feel so lost.

This question was asked Apr. 21, 2012 2:11pm
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Answered by knicole27 - Apr. 21, 2012 2:36pm

I am so very sorry hun. Don't be too hard on yourself, I am sending many prayers of comfort and peace your way. I do believe it drops to the 1% after a heartbeat is detected on a normal u/s at 16 weeks or after. I am truly sorry you have to go through this. :/

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Answered by tinkerbell26 - Apr. 22, 2012 11:37am

I am sooooo so sorry for you and ur DH loss the same thing happened to me bk in Oct. I saw an amazing little heartbeat at 6wk 3 days and then had another scan at 11wks and baby had stopped growing at about 7ish wks. It was awful after seeing the heartbeat and then it been taken away from us. I'm so sorry again :)

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Answered by Christie143 - Apr. 21, 2012 2:22pm

Awww :( I am soooo sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could say to make the pain go away. I know it just sucks :'( I will keep you in my prayers every day. Im sooooo sorry :(

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Answered by Samm0704 - Apr. 21, 2012 2:36pm

I am very sorry about your loss. =(

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Answered by mjjmbnmm - Apr. 21, 2012 8:56pm

I'm so sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers

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Answered by Stellar222 - Apr. 21, 2012 4:49pm

Oh hon, I'm so sorry for you loss. You're in my prayers.

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Answered by looney - Apr. 22, 2012 4:01pm

You will be a wonderful mother. Don't give up hope! ((hugs))

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Answered by Steph35 - Apr. 21, 2012 3:01pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss:-( You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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Answered by Peanut101 - Apr. 23, 2012 6:39am

Thoughts and prayers are with you!! Don't give up!

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Answered by becca.kay2 - Apr. 23, 2012 7:41pm

I'am so sorry for your loss, I had a miscarriage almost over a year ago, it's pain to go through thing's like that. It took me a while to get over my baby. One day, you'll have your chance to be a mom again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Don't give up, it'll come true.

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