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Q: Is ok for your husband to watch porn by him self?

Explain why or why not?? I need other persons opinions

This question was asked Mar. 3, 2013 3:42am
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Answered by a member - Mar. 4, 2013 6:02am
Thank you ladies!! I needed to hear all this. My husband say he does it cause guys get horny alot more then woman and he needs to let of the steam. He doesn't think or want to have sex with those whores. I'm really ok with it, it just bothers me sometimes. Our sex life is great!!

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Answered by ElaLoub - Mar. 3, 2013 4:53pm
I am not okay with it at all! It's because we are both Christians and have the utmost respect for each other's body and for sexual purity. Don't get me wrong, we have a wonderful and very kinky sex life :) We both just believe that watching porn makes you want to see more and more and later on the normal sex stuff is not interesting enough. And pornstars are made up and doing it under special lights with special camera angles. No normal person looks like that in real life. It sets expectations that are unnatural!

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Answered by edwina2021 - Mar. 4, 2013 4:19pm
Ummm NO! that is wrong. Its you or nothing. There are other ways to relax. Go hang out with friends or something. My x did that. I hated being in the next room knowning he was having pleasuring himself. Theres other ways then porn.

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Answered by Emma78 - Mar. 3, 2013 6:17am
It depends I wouldn't care if he watched it if we still had a good sex life. If he watched it and jerked off instead of Having sex with me I would be really upset. I guess if he was open about with me or if he hid it. If it was occasionally or all the time would make a difference tool.

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Answered by Rockabump - Mar. 3, 2013 4:16am
I think it's fine. My husband does and we have a great sex life.

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Answered by a member - Mar. 3, 2013 8:19pm
As other members have said, it is fine and normal unless it is clearly replacing your sex life. I watch porn by myself all the time, and we still have a good sex life.

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Answered by madijoh - Mar. 4, 2013 11:31pm
Nope. I wouldn't put up with it. Makes me feel like I'm not good enough. Granted my significant other doesn't watch porn, I had an ex that did constantly. I hated it.

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Answered by loveinme - Mar. 3, 2013 11:46pm
Totally ok. I used to do it all the time before I got pregnant, but now my sex drive is low, so I do not need sex at all. I do not think you should take it personally, he watches it because he wants to. It does not mean that he is not attracted to you.

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Answered by maggie22 - Mar. 4, 2013 1:31am
I am not overly happy that my husband watches porn but i think its a very normal thing for guys to do. Like the other ladies said as long as your sex life isnt suffering and your not being replaced by the porn i think its very normal.

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Answered by TheMrs0212 - Mar. 3, 2013 5:32pm
I don't have a problem with it at all. Actually, I've never flat out asked my husband if he watches it, but just assumed that he does. I'm okay with it because our sex life is still incredible. Also, my husband is smart enough to know and understand the difference between the girls he's watching on the screen who are getting paid to perform acts that are often uncomfortable and/or aren't even pleasurable, and me - his wife who he loves and wants to please.

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